Social Anxiety Solutions - Your Journey To Social Confidence!

"Change a limiting belief in a few minutes for forever" The words of Duccio Locati who in this interview describes what PSYCH-K is and how it happens that with this amazing tool you can install positive beliefs directly into your subconscious mind. He shares what’s possible, what it has done for his social anxiety, and gives examples of beliefs a socially comfortable person has that you can install using the process. QUOTE: During PSYCH-K process what we experience is a shift where we in a few minutes go from a perception of “I’m not good enough” to one of “I am perfect as I am”.   Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/duccio/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrier www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/

EFT Master and tough case expert Sophia shares the importance of changing our repetitive negative thoughts, guides you through an EFT tap along to move you into more optimism, and goes into depth on the power of the subconscious mind and how to make friends with it so it serves you in becoming anxiety-free. 
 QUOTE: It’s not your fault where you find yourself. You’re not broken or defective. Even if it feels impossible, it CAN change. Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/sophia2/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrierwww.social-anxiety-solutions.com

I speak with “tough cases expert” Karin Davidson, as she gives us deep insight into the value of persistence. We go over mindsets that guarantee success, share inspiring perspectives, and give you insights into that key ingredient to becoming socially confident for life. QUOTE: Not giving up on yourself is key. Just because you’ve read 5000 self help books and just because you’ve tried everything … What works for one person, might not work for another. There is something out there that will work for you. Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/karin/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrierwww.social-anxiety-solutions.com

Self sabotage expert Jacqui shares what self sabotage is and why it shows up, and what to do about it. Jacqui Crooks, EFT Master, shares how it often can come as a result of ancestral patterns, or how anxiety can be inherited. 

 Jacqui guides you through a tapping sequence to help you release any ancestral/inherited patterns leading to self sabotage. 

 We then discuss how to work towards clearing all the resistance on the journey to being socially confident for life. QUOTE: If you’re not doing something it’s because a part of you thinks you’ll die if you do Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/jacqui/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrierwww.social-anxiety-solutions.com

Psychotherapist Dave describes the 5 innate, natural needs we come into the world with. And he goes into detail on how these not being met by our parents cause our emotional wounds. Dave goes on to share ways in which our emotional wounds damage our current relationships, and how healing your emotional wounds benefits you in feeling calm and present in social situations. QUOTE: When our needs were not fulfilled we would become fearful of being with people because they could misattune and betray our needs the same way our parents did. And we might also on the other hand have such a bottomless pit of needs (for the needs that weren’t fulfilled) that we become a burden for anyone who wants to be in a relationship with us because we demand a lot more attention, acceptance, appreciation, etc than an ordinary adult would ask for. Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/davericho/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrier www.social-a

I interview therapist, trainer, author, and supervisor of therapists Judy Byrne on the inner voice that criticises you. You know, that voice that talks you down, discourages you, tells you how much of a loser you are, let’s you know you’re not enough, don’t do enough, and that you’re worthless… That voice!

She guides you through an EFT tapping round (a simple tapping technique that is like acupunture, but without needles, and rapidly neutralises painful emotions such as fear and shame) to soften that inner critic. She also gives you plenty of suggestions on how to break down the inner voice and start to create an inner cheerleader. 

Now how empowering would that be to have in your life? Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/taming-your-inner-critical-voice/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrierwww.social-anxiety-solutions.com

Neo was a virgin until he was 23 years old who forced himself to talk to 70 women a week. 
He's a certified hypnotherapist and a Master Practitioner and Trainer of NLP and has coached men and women on all aspects of attraction, intimacy, and sensuality.
 He talks about incrementally taking action; how to work with the biological signal of fear surrounding dating to get out of the energy of “I can’t” and in doing so build your inner strength. He also talks you through different stages to becoming comfortable with dating to make sex a super fun, amazing, exciting experience. 
Quoting Neo:
“Whatever you think is too much of a stretch for you can become part of your comfort zone. If you make a decision to evolve yourself incrementally you will get there. Make a commitment and use the tools available to you and use the actions to follow up.”   Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/neo/)Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/Warm regards, Sebastiaan van der Schrierwww.soc

I interview the creator of the powerful and simple healing technique “The Emotion Code”. This is something I have personally benefited from tremendously. It’s an amazing technique and he gives it to you for free in this episode!
 Dr. Bradley Nelson is a chiropractor by training and is the developer of the Emotion code and the Body code, which are powerful healing systems based upon the finding and releasing trapped emotions using muscle testing to access the knowledge of the subconscious mind. He shares examples of what happened with clients, shares testimonials of what can be expected, and walks you through an example of how the process of the emotion code works by sharing various examples of how it works. QUOTE: “One of the beauties of the emotion code is that we bypass the conscious mind. The conscious mind doesn’t know. Your conscious mind can overload and forget things, but your subconscious mind remembers everything and that is what we tap into with the emotion code. It might sound weird, but it’s actu

One of the most terrifying, frustrating, overwhelming and discouraging things is for many people "getting triggered". Getting triggered can be by an intense spike of anxiety, or by a person, situation or circumstance triggering old wounds within you. These wounds then get opened, and you end up reliving the pain of that old trauma. This can be very challenging to deal with when you do not have the right understanding and perspective. Therefore I've created in this podcast an EFT tap-along for you to gain the proper mindset to take on when you do get triggered. By going over it you will be able to take some of the edge of the trigger, or at the very least get some relief on your feelings about getting triggered, and you'll gain an empowered perspective that actually makes you feel about the fact that you o get triggered. How is that possible? Listen in, tap along, and gain the perspective. Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/triggered/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.

"You’re conditioned into a social climate: Here’s what you are and it’s not quite good enough. And here what you should be, and here are all the people that get all the happiness and the wealth. You could have this really nice life, but your status isn’t good enough, so you got to work really hard to get there and you’re not allowed to accept where you are”. 

 In this chat my buddy Tom and I discuss the influence of social status. Since we've both lived -and are living- in different cultures, we discuss how to be authentically YOU. QUOTE: 


I think it’s good to get a range of different cultural experiences that take you out of your idea of yourself so you can realise who you’re not. And then you start the real work of discovering 
“well who am I then?”Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/status/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrier www.social-anxiety-solutions.com

Dating coach Tripp shares how to approach women, how he got over his approach anxiety, empowered mindsets to have for meeting and dating women, and the importance to developing yourself into a man who has options. QUOTE: "Come from a place of want and not a place of need and you can have a much more fulfilling life. That way you're also much more sexy to a woman." Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/tripp/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrierwww.social-anxiety-solutions.com

It is of essential importance to freeing yourself of your social anxiety and creating social confidence that you believe that you can and will overcome it. But how is that possible when you're right in the middle of social anxiety and it's messing up your life? How can you believe it's possible when nothing works for you? In this episode I share insights on how to get there, and I also guide you through an EFT tapping process to build the belief: "I can and will overcome my social anxiety and live a socially confident life" This way you're set for success; you've geared your mind for social confidence. As Henry Ford says (and you know, famous people who are often quoted must be somewhat important!): Whether you think you can, or think you cannot, you are right. Enjoy this, and if you did enjoy it, consider sharing it with someone else to give them the gift or relief and empowerment. Paying good stuff forward comes back to us. Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/scfocus/) My homepag

Ready to feel better immediately? On this podcast I guide you through some EFT tapping to help you gain relief, get the empowered perspective for change, and hopefully inspire you to create social confidence in 2016! Happy new year, wishing you social confidence, effortless connection, great relationships and a satisfying social life with a lot of un. Seb Check out the show notes page here (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/tap2016/) My homepagewww.social-anxiety-solutions.com Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrier _________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their s

Discover the 12 steps to social confidence I've uncovered as a result of thousands of hours of coaching socially anxious clients, my own journey from severe social anxiety to social confidence, and studying under and being guided by top therapists, psychotherapists, and coaches.  Check out the 12 Step, Energy Psychology-based Social Confidence System http://www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/social-confidence-system/ Warm regards,SebP.S. Contact me directly here. 

This one exercise I share alone can change your life. I do this several times a week, sometimes every day. It's part of one of the 12 steps of my social confidence system. To sign up for my "12 steps to social confidence" webinar, go to here.www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/webinar/ This live webinar will start at 9PM EST, December 22nd. Talk soon!Seb

How boring would it be if you’re always perfect? The words of Olivia Pino, a 33 year old woman who's enjoying a satisfying social life in various countries in the world. She's a friend and a great example of what "effortless social confidence" feel like, looks like, and is. She shares a super simple and effective way to start a social life from scratch.  She in between the lines shares the difference that makes the difference between just meeting people or meeting people and becoming friends, and says things like: "I now know myself more. And it doesn’t really matter what they think of me as long as I’m true to myself and that I’m speaking my truth. Why would I be worried about what they think if I’m OK with myself?" "What I can control is my emotions, why would I try to control someone else’s emotions? It’s not my job…" "I just introduce myself and see what comes." "You need to sift through the shit to get to the good. It’s about having everything. You can’t see that really in the media. All you see is the p

I share in detail my journey to social confidence and share the things that did not work, the things that did work, what motivated me, what helped me, what inspired me, and what my life is like today. Hope this helps you :-)Warm regardsSebWebsite:www.socialanxietysolutions.comContact me:www.socialanxietysolutions.com/contact/

I'm interviewing Sophia Cayer, EFT Master, trainer of therapists, and someone who's a sought-after expert for working with challenging cases. She's done over 12 000 coaching sessions, and shares her views on the therapy process and the benefits of working with someone who's an expert.  She says: "Working with a therapist if often faster, less frustrating and a lot less painful." During the interview we talk about the common irrational fears people have when thinking of therapy, we address and reframe common stigma’s surrounding therapy, and pain a realistic and empowering perspective of what a great coaching/therapy relationship can do for you and your quality of life. QUOTE: When you’re working with someone, the right someone for you, it doesn’t have to be painful. Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/sophiacayer/) My homepagewww.social-anxiety-solutions.com Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards, Sebastiaan van der Schrier _____________________

"The right person will facilitate healing in you. They will help you grow and evolve and you’ll be a better person as a result of that" The words of relationship expert and emotional freedom expert and trainer Alina Frank.She goes over some of the fears and beliefs that prevent people from getting into a romantic relationship and then shares how to resolve these beliefs. And she also shares common troubles people run into that prevent them from staying in a relationship.We’re talking about how anxiety can damage the sexual passion in a relationship Don’t think that this is a problem of will-power. There are things happening in your body and mind that you can get some relief for. It might not be overnight but don’t give up.   A few quotes:"It seems to people (with SA) that it is a weakness to overcome. And that in and of itself is a problem because now there’s the shame and the guilt cycle that has them retreating further from life." "The more that you can be comfortable in a wide variety of situations, the

"Ocytocin motivates social interaction by reducing the appropriate stress response we have when we interact with someone who’s new"... The words of scientist, Paul J Zak, known as the 'King of Trust'. Paul is the founding Director of the Center for Neuroeconomics Studies and he’s Professor of Economics, Psychology and Management. Dr. Zak also serves as Professor of Neurology and is a Senior Researcher at UCLA. Dr. Zak is a recognised expert in oxytocin. His lab discovered in 2004 that oxytocin allows us to determine who to trust. This knowledge is being used to understand the basis for civilisation and modern economies, improve negotiations, and treat patients with neurologic and psychiatric disorders. Paul shares in this in simple ways what oxytocin is, how it works, and how to use it to recude your social anxiety. He shares 10 simple brain hacks to reduce social anxiety and also shares fascinating insights and studies that help you understand your anxiety better, and make quick progress. QUOTE: It’s the