Sinopse
Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, call 206-201-2720. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savagelovecast.com and get yourself a season subscription.
Episódios
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After Action Report #38
17/07/2026 Duração: 16minIn one of the more graphic After Action Reports we’ve had the pleasure to relay, hear Mary’s story not of getting peed ON, but getting peed IN. Don’t worry. She has a “robust vagina.” Do YOU have anything robust about you?Send us the details to [email protected]. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.
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Savage Love Episode 1027
14/07/2026 Duração: 54minA lesbian with a pregnant wife is confounded and disgruntled at the way Pride celebrations can be a little too sex positive, especially if you have a little kid. Should Pride parades put on a straight-laced appearance, or go full bacchanal? It's an old, old debate. A woman needs her lovers to tell her she's hot and generally praise her during sex. Like, a lot. Is this a kink? On the Magnum, Dan meets his witty, homosexual match in Bryan Safi. The Emmy Award-winning actor, writer, and comedian known for his work on ABC’s “9-1-1” as well as his podcasts, Attitudes! and Ask Ronna, is making his Off-Broadway debut this summer with Are You Mad At Me?? They chat about all this, and answer a caller who wonders if she should agree to a man's request on Feeld to be her "foot boy." Safi is magically delightful, and you simply must listen in. And, a woman's butt plug keeps disappearing up her butt. It's not supposed to work like that, right? Right. Call us with your quandaries. 206-302-2064 Recor
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After Action Report #37
10/07/2026 Duração: 14minHave you ever bitten a dick? Like really hard?NO YOU HAVE NOT.She did. And he liked it. Listen in. If you’ve done something…shocking, and you want to tell us about it, send the details to [email protected]. This episode is brought to you by Feeld- the dating app that so many Lovecast listeners are already using. Try Feeld’s new feature “Reflections” now by visiting feeld.co/reflections or by downloading Feeld on the App Store or Google Play.
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Savage Love Episode 1026
07/07/2026 Duração: 57minA man in a poly relationship is worried that his penis smells like his girlfriend's vagina despite his meticulous hygiene practices. This doesn't bother him. But when he eventually convinces someone else to go down on him, will they notice? Is there a "special soap" he could use? In Paris, in the year 1911, an employee of the Louvre made off with the Mona Lisa. Fast forward to the year 2024. A woman "acquired" an explicit erotic painting left behind in an office re-organization featuring two men who live above the space. After 2 years of it hanging on her wall, she really loves this painting. She thinks the couple commissioned the art. Does she have to return it to them, and what on earth should she say if she does? On the Magnum, in order to counter some of the skepticism around the practice of hypnokink, we welcome Daniel McGlothlen, kink educator, performer, and adult content creator who specializes in hypnosis. Is it real? Is it fun? Listen in. And, a man issues a chilling PSA/warning. If you'r
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After Action Report #36
03/07/2026 Duração: 17minDid you know that they have bathhouses in Canada? They do!Meet Jay, married to his husband for 10 years, and ready for adventure.Even though he was nervous and his glasses kept fogging up, he persevered. Hear all about it. If you have a story to share, write to us at [email protected]. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.
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Savage Love Episode 1025
30/06/2026 Duração: 56minA woman's hot boyfriend is being harassed by his upstairs neighbor who has come up with a novel way to summon him to his door. Our first guest is GI physician and friend of the show Dr. Carlton Thomas. He is on to answer a question about NEW DOUCHING TECHNOLOGY. On the Magnum, a newly single woman is howling at the moon with insatiably high libido. She's annoyed with apps and parties and wonders if she should just hire a sex worker already. Dan chatted with "Love Coach," podcast host and former sex worker Shaun Galanos about her options. Finally, a man has just had prostate surgery. His doctors tell him he must have no sexual contact while he recovers. Can his girlfriend suck his dick anyway? Here's how it works. You record your question. Then you send it to [email protected] Or! You call 206-302-2064. This episode is brought to you by Feeld- the dating app that so many Lovecast listeners are already using. Try Feeld’s new feature “Reflections” now by visiting feeld.co/reflections or by download
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After Action Report #35
26/06/2026 Duração: 22minMeet Maxon. Ho hum. Just your typical non-binary, exhibitionist, pre-op sub who has worn a titanium cock-cage constantly for over 850 days. If this sounds rather dull to you, remember as Maxon says: "Everyone's chastity journey is different." BUT THAT ISN'T EVEN WHAT THIS AFTER ACTION REPORT IS ABOUT. Do you like to play bingo? Then think hard before you press play. Because with this episode in your head, the game will never be the same. Can you top this one? Yeah? Write about the shenanigans YOU got into and send it to [email protected].
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1024
23/06/2026 Duração: 57minA woman discovers her recently deceased father had a foot-tickling fetish and doesn't know how to process this new view of her dad. Speaking of kinks, a man with a diaper fetish is feeling resentful that his kink so severely limits his dating prospects. On the Magnum, Dan chats with hunky clinical psychologist Dr. Thomas Whitfield about dating closet cases, sex education, masc for masc and why the common use of therapy terms like "narcissist" and "avoidant" is so annoying. And, a man and his girlfriend need a comfortable but effective gag option. But you! You must not be quiet. Open your mouth and ask your question: [email protected] 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Mack Weldon: timeless, innovative menswear to help you move throughthe day with confidence. Get 20% off your first order of $125 or more, with promo code SAVAGE at MackWeldon.com This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking
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After Action Report #34
19/06/2026 Duração: 13minBecca just needed to relax. So she thought she’d be like the gays and try poppers. How did it go? Listen and then you’ll know. If you’ve recently tried a new product or ingested a substance to improve your sex life, we want to know about it. Write your story and send it to us at [email protected]. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1023
16/06/2026 Duração: 51minA woman who enjoys multiple orgasms doesn't understand why, physiologically, all woman can't come over and over and over. Like she can. A gay man wants a new word for the practice of rubbing dicks together, other than "frotting." On the Magnum, Dan interviews Tracy Clark-Flory whose memoir My Mother's Daughter , brought Dan to tears. It encompasses feminism, racism, parenting, adoption and so much more. They also take a call from a teacher who is grappling with teaching little kids about consent. And, a woman was horrified to hear about straight women groping men at gay bars, because they thought the guys there were fair use. A gay male friend countered that groping in gay bars was permissible because it's just their culture. Is it? Or is some consent required? Say what you need to say to us: Call 206-302-2064 Or Record your question and send it to [email protected] Or, click HERE. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at
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After Action Report #33
12/06/2026 Duração: 16minSomewhere in Peru, 1,100 feet above the sea, a handsome masseuse in Peru offered our brave, queer woman weed, sensual massage and “yoni massage.” Seems sketchy, but he got lots of good reviews on Google. After this show comes out we expect an uptick of tourism to Peru… Have you thrown caution to the wind? Let us know all about it. [email protected] This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.
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Savage Love Episode 1022
09/06/2026 Duração: 49minA trans woman's friend is married to a Russian-born MAGA creep-o. But, plot twist! The Trump/Putin-lover is transitioning! It's hard for the caller to gin up sympathy for someone who supports anti-gay/trans autocrats. How should she interact with these bizarre people? A gay man's new boyfriend wants to get dominated. But the caller has always been vanilla. Dan welcomes Master R, who specializes in shibari bondage to offer this newbie some tips. On the Magnum, Dan once asked if there were ANY poly-under-duress memoirs written by men. There is, and we got him! Adam Darrow, author of Seek the Risk: One Man's Journey into Non-Monogamy is on to talk about his initial reluctance in dating a woman with a various sexual appetite. He compares his experience to participating in extreme sports. Listen in. A woman is about to meet a new paramour, who will be visiting her for the first time. In their remote conversations, he has made it crystal clear that he enjoys jizzing all over his ladies. She hates the ta
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After Action Report #32
05/06/2026 Duração: 16minHo hum. Threeway, marathon fuck session with a woman at a punk rock party. Sounds boring, right? But wait for it- this 3-way has a surprise ending. Surprise us! Write about your naughty little experience, and send it to [email protected]. This episode is brought to you by Feeld- the dating app that so many Lovecast listeners are already using. Try Feeld’s new feature “Reflections” now by visiting feeld.co/reflections or by downloading Feeld on the App Store or Google Play.
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Savage Love Episode 1021
02/06/2026 Duração: 52minA woman who really wants a long term partner has gotten a "tantric opportunity" she may not be able to refuse. Hours and hours of hot sex? But the dude isn't boyfriend material. Should take this once in a lifetime opportunity anyway? A woman's friend only dates women much younger than himself. He insists he's being respectful and mindful of power imbalance. But it still gives her the creeps- should it? On the Magnum, a man asks if hypnotism as a means to control someone sexually is a bunch of nonsense. Dan brings on science journalist Sadie Dingfelder to look into the matter. And, a man dated a woman, broke up, came out, and remains very good friends with his ex. She feels like his platonic but important partner. He had a boyfriend for a while, but the guy was a bit of a dullard and couldn't hold a candle intellectually to his female bestie. Can he find a partner who will accept his gal pal as a part of his emotional life? Record your question and send it here: [email protected] Or call 206-302-2064
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After Action Report #31
29/05/2026 Duração: 15minA man who wanted to confirm his hetero-flexibility gives his first BJ. But did he pass the cocksucker test? Not everyone does. Hear all about it. Want to share your first time doing something? Write us at [email protected]. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.
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Savage Love Episode 1020
26/05/2026 Duração: 50minThis show is a roller coaster...of love. We start out with a heartbreaking question from a woman whose fiancé broke up with her after she had bought the dress and sent out the invites. Their lives and friends are intertwined. How can she bounce back from something like this? Then, a gay man has observed trans men at sex clubs getting it on with lots of guys. If they aren't on birth control, can they get pregnant? Is it polite to ask, and should cis men wear condoms in this situation? On the Magnum, strap in- it's Eric Andre! Dan and the master prankster answer a straight man's question about whether gathering with other men to masturbate together constitutes cheating. They also talk about some of the personal advice Dan gave Eric a little while ago. Want to get up close and personal with Eric Andre? Listen in... And, meet a rare woman who likes receiving dick pics. 6 months into their relationship, she started sending him nudes. When he asked if he should reciprocate, she expected some shirtless photos,
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After Action Report #30
25/05/2026 Duração: 21minWhat a feel-good story for the ages. Victor managed to amass three sexual "firsts" in one potent session with a transwoman domme:Experience subspace- check.Have sex with a transwoman- check.Dick in the butt? Check! This sizzling story also offers a study in sex worker professionalism. Listen in and feel the joy. Have you gone through some new interesting times? Tell us, tell us, tell us!Write it up and send it in to [email protected]. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.
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Savage Lovecast 1019
19/05/2026 Duração: 46minThis just in! Man thinks he's special because he has a Madonna/whore complex! When a woman first started dating her boyfriend, he had a drinking problem, and made some bad moves. The caller told her friends and family about this. But now that he is better and truly working on himself, no one but the caller will forgive him. How can she convince them that he's a good guy? On the Magnum, Dan chats with NYC-based comedian Jamie Wolf on why it's good for men to sleep with women who have a lot of experience, how to stick up for yourself when your roommates are loudly fucking, and how incels could get laid more if only they were nice people. Jamie Wolf rules! And, a gay man asks what is up with sloppy BJs. Why would anyone want to end up with a puddle of spit in your lap, this perplexed man wonders. What are you wondering about? Call us and ask. [email protected] 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog.
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After Action Report #29
15/05/2026 Duração: 15minAnne thought that finding a professional to tie her up in exquisite Shibari bondage in her little, small town would be impossible. She was wrong! Hear all about her encounter in the rope top’s studio. Do you have something for us? Fork it over. Write to [email protected]. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit VB.Health when you use the code Savage.
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Savage Lovecast Episode 1018
12/05/2026 Duração: 55minWhen he was a young homo, he was expected to rim his tops. Kids today want the top to rim the bottom! What gives? A straight man and his girlfriend keep taking "breaks" from the relationship, at her behest. They always end up getting back together, but each time he thinks it's the end. Should he continue to tolerate this exhausting cycle? Our guest is the thoroughly delightful Midwestern comedian Jackie Kashian. She and Dan tackle a question from a man who wants to hit on a woman 30 years his junior at the Passover seder. They talk about age gap relationships in general, on sleeping with many people whilst blotto drunk, and they dish out some actionable advice on how to succeed as a stand-up comedian. A little is on the Micro, and the whole thing is on the Magnum. And, a very female presenting non-binary person has the hots for gay bears. Are any of them bisexual enough to want to date this person? [email protected] 206-302-2064 Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with pro