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There is a difference between simply being a good man and being good at being a man. Today, I talk about the differences and why it's critical we learn to embrace the performative excellence that comes with the active role of being good at being a man. www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I answer questions regarding honor, character, and integrity, how to get noticed at work, instilling toughness in our children, how I am influenced by, and how to prioritize information with application These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review!

10 years ago, I found myself listening to CDs from my guest while driving between financial advisory appointments. He had no idea how influential he would be in my life as I frustratingly attempted to build my first business. 10 years later, I have the privilege of having an incredibly powerful conversation with one of the most important people in my professional/business life, Mr. Ed Mylett. Today, we talk about over to overcome your greatest fears, the power of faith in your aspirations, how to unleash your greatest gifts and skills, and how to fully max out your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Why it's critical you choose your words carefully How to overcome your greatest fears Why you need to know what's worth fighting for The power of faith in your aspirations How to "level up" your goals and objectives Developing a proper work/life balance Why your reputation with yourself is crucial How to develop unwavering self-esteem Finding the middle ground between giving and taking Differentiating between ego and pride Ho

Today, I talk about becoming a man of value, why it's critical we learn to add more than we take, and a three-step formula for making yourself more valuable to others. www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about overcoming failed relationships, dismissing the term, "fragile masculinity," reversing the tide of fatherless homes, and so much more... These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review! www.orderofman.com

One of the most common challenges I see men face is their inability to overcome being too nice. Don't get me wrong, being nice is great but when it comes at the expense of your own well-being, it becomes a problem. Today, I am joined by psychologist, Dr. Aziz Gazipura, to talk about the pitfalls of being too nice. We cover the "guilt bubble" and how to get out of it, the costs of being overly nice, learning to speak up and develop healthy boundaries, and how to stop being so nice. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What does it mean to be "nice" How being overly nice is self-sabotaging What the "guilt bubble" is and how to get out of it The costs of being too nice How to liberate yourself How to establish healthy boundaries Learning to speak up Why being selfish is not always a bad thing How to choose and communicate your rules Strategies for improving your ability to say "no" How to care about others without jeopardizing yourself How to increase your discomfort tolerance How to "own your shadows" How to develop more assertiv

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about some deeper and more serious issues than we've addressed in the past like the myth of "Toxic Masculinity," addressing false rape allegations, current trends in society that impact both men and women, and, on a not-so-serious note, whether Batman is a superhero or not. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review! www.orderofman.com

Each and every one of us has a desire to strengthen our bodies and minds. Why is it then that so many men struggle when it comes to the training they know will improve every area of their lives? This is a question my guest, Bobby Maximus, has been answering for his training clients for years and helping them bridge the gap between where they are now and where they want to be. Today, we talk about the psychology of training, how to eliminate the excuses that creep in, why you should reframe "self-improvement" as "self-work," and how to harden the body and mind. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The psychology of training Developing a strong self-image Eliminate excuses How to train for life How to sift through the noise and garbage Reframing self-improvement as self-work How to build in accountability How to know if your why is strong enough Balancing internal and external growth How to eliminate your doubts What is "green dot therapy" 10 words that will ruin your life How to kill your self-governor Why you should document yo

Each and every one of us is likely to face catastrophic events and circumstances in our lives. We can retreat and wallow in our own self-pity or find a way to rise from the ashes. Here's a system for the latter. www.orderofman.com/FFN130 Please leave us a rating and review!

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and answer questions about optimizing your day, developing and maintaining discipline, overcoming resistance, how to prioritize activities, and so much more. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review! www.orderofman.com

It's not a surprise to you that there is so much noise and nonsense that attempts to engage our focus and keep us distracted from the things that truly matter. And, if you're one of the few men who has actually taken the time to identify what you really want, that doesn't necessarily make things any easier. Today, I am joined by former Navy SEAL and a lead instructor with Echelon Front, JP Dinnell. We talk about the importance of consistency towards your goals, why flexibility in training is critical, how to eliminate the things that keep your from meaning and significance, and living life on your terms. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The importance of consistency towards your goals Why discipline is a foundational principle of growth Why flexibility in training is critical How to own both problems and solutions How to drill down to the core reasoning of your work How to best honor the fallen and their sacrifices Transitioning out of the service 3 factors that break down a marriage Choosing to take the harder route How to

It's likely in the not-so-distant-past you've allowed your emotions to get the better of you. It's easy to do so in the heat of the moment. We've all been there. Today, I share a very effective 5-step formula for owning your emotions more effectively. www.orderofman.com Please leave us a rating and review!

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and answer questions about overcoming past wrongdoings, finding male friends, the difference between ego and pride, and whether or not we should care about what people think of us. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review! www.orderofman.com

So many men believe that the terms purpose and profit are mutually exclusive - that for one to exist, the other can't. That just isn't the case. In fact, when you learn to align your purpose and passion with the ability to make a profit, you have a greater ability to impact the world in a positive way. Today, I am joined by the founder of Black Rifle Coffee Company, Evan Hafer, to talk about how he's managed to build such a successful business around what was simply a passion project. We talk about the power of utilizing new media for marketing, finding and speaking to your tribe, sacrificing ego on the altar of business, and how to align purpose, passion, and profit. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS How Evan went from firearms to roasting How Black Rifle Coffee Company makes and utilizes viral videos Why interactive marketing is crucial to a business' success Evan's view on the competition Defining "great marketing" Discovering, developing, and speaking to your tribe Giving birth to a new you Identifying and letting go of f

Every man should live by a code, an operating system by which we will live his life. Without one, it's easy to get lost in the moment and conduct ourselves in a way that's incongruent with the way we view who we are. Today, I talk about why a code is important, what should be included in your code, and how to write your own. www.orderofman.com/FFN128 Please leave us a rating and review!

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and answer questions about how to leave a significant legacy, getting over toxic relationships, the law of attraction, the importance of a patriarch in a family, and our obligation to serve in the community. These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members. Please leave us a rating and review! www.orderofman.com

What does it mean to be a complete beast? This is a question my guest, Jack Donovan, attempts to answer in his latest book, appropriately titled, A More Complete Beast. There is a reason the title is likely to resonate with you, as a man. Each of us understands that we are both man and beast. Today we cover so much about the subject of masculinity including why being a man has to be an intentional choice, the power of what he calls the "conquering eye," how to avoid becoming a victim of victims, and how each and every one of us can become a more complete beast. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS What it means to become a more complete beast Why you have to make an intentional choice to be a man Why men are perceived as a threat to society Why you should challenge yourself as a man The four masculine tactical virtues - strength, courage, mastery, honor Why some people try to redefine words to fit their narrative The power of the "conquering eye" Why it's important to define an honor code for yourself Why you should care about s

Whether we realize it or not, every single one of us is leaving a legacy. We can do that by default or we can be intentional and deliberate about what we leave behind long after we're dead and gone. Today, I share a quick recap of our inaugural Legacy event, four strategies for leaving a stronger legacy, and three action items for you to complete in order for you to flush out the type of man you want to be remembered as. www.orderofman.com/FFN127 Please leave us a rating and review!

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and I talk influence and leadership, not wrapping up your identity in outside factors, overcoming overwhelm and insecurity, and so much more. These questions come from our Patreon Members. Please leave us a rating and review! www.orderofman.com

Everyone once in a while you have the opportunity to sit down and talk with someone like you've known them for years. Although me and my guest today, Pete Roberts, have only known each other for six months or so, we share some core values when it comes to the way we approach our life, our business, and our responsibilities as men. Today we talk about how arrogance is hurting men, how to instill discipline in your children, the importance of self-checking yourself, and how to set yourself free. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS The real deal with being an introvert/extrovert How Jiu-Jitsu translates into life Why you aren't as good as you think you are How your arrogance is hurting you The cycle of hardship and how it creates stronger men The American Dream and how to bring it back How to instill discipline into your children Why brute strength isn't always your ally How to keep kids from going soft The power of "tribalism" and conformity How to create a powerful culture Delegating roles and responsibilities How to effectivel