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In a follow-up to episode 239, I discuss the difference between failure and results in recovery. For more on the Owner/Victim choice described by Steve Chandler listen to PFR 213 - Are You An Owner Or A Victim? http://recoveredman.com/213

In this episode, I talk about what it means to be ALL IN. "The decision had been made and all that was left to do was whatever it took. And that involved no consideration. There was no more deliberation." — Chris Dorris, ALL IN! https://recoveredman.com/239

In this episode, I talk about the fear of being misunderstood. The irony is we give so much energy, in life, to what people think and how we're perceived. But despite our best efforts we still are misunderstood.  Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/238   PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:   Porn Free This Year (Free video course) http://recoveredman.com/thisyear   Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz http://pornfreebook.com   Join a REV Group http://recoveredman.com/rev   1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz https://recoveredman.com/coaching

In this episode coach and podcaster, Brendan Burns, hosts a crossover episode about why now is the best time to make positive changes in your life. This episode features Don't Trust the Cloud by Lee Rosevere. Visit http://leerosevere.bandcamp.com https://recoveredman.com/237

Do you care a lot about what people think? Do you struggle with feeling good enough? Do you avoid conflict? When you relapse to you feel a lot of shame? If so you may be living life in what Steve Chandler calls the "Social Self." In this episode, we define the "Social Self" and contrast it with our goal in recovery, the "Authentic Self." http://recoveredman.com/236 PFR is sponsored by BetterHelp https://trybetterhelp.com/recoveredman

"I’m committed to being porn free because I’m sick and tired of living off of chicken nuggets and french fries and I want more ski slopes, Hulk rides, and BBQ in my life.” — The Epic Why Statement from a PFR Listener Is your recovery boring? Here’s how to start reclaiming your creativity and imagination today. https://recoveredman.com/235

Guys in recovery are often focused on sobriety. But what is your sobriety for? What does it make possible? And in light of the recent tragedy, in Minnesota, how does our recovery journey inform our response to the situation. https://recoveredman.com/234

Nick Stumbo and Trevor Winsor join me for an EPIC crossover episode with the Pure Desire Podcast. https://recoveredman.com/233

In this episode, I discuss what Tony Robbins calls the two driving forces in life that motivate us. I also share a quick exercise you can use to take action on things you are avoiding.

For years I struggled with unaccountable time. The idea that there were situations where I was alone and not accountable. But it's a myth. All time is accountable. It's measured. It's limited. And we ALWAYS choose how it's spent. https://recoveredman.com/231

The things you have learned from recovery can actually help you lead and serve others in challenging times. I'm excited to announce a new PFR sponsor: BetterHelp. To get 10% off your first month of professional counseling go to https://trybetterhelp.com/recoveredman.

Jason George aka "The Griz" rides shotgun on this episode where I share 5 powerful anchor habits you can build into your recovery right now. https://recoveredman.com/229

Recovery Coach Jay Pyatt joins me for the final episode of the coaches trilogy that started in PFR 226. We discuss current events, sheltering-in-place and Covid-19. Jay also shares some awesome recovery ideas from his own journey and from coaching others. https://recoveredman.com/228

Podcaster and Coach, Kris Pavone, joins me for a conversation about current events in early 2020. Kris is a teacher, former WWE Wrestler, and the host of the Kris Pavone Show. https://recoveredman.com/227

How can we reframe the challenges that come from disruption, travel restriction, and sheltering in place? Business and life coach, Brendan Burns, visits again for a cross-over podcast about Covid-19, recovery, and more. https://recoveredman.com/226

We're facing a tsunami of feelings and emotions these days. How do we deal with emotions in a skillful way? In this episode, I share a powerful tool you can use today. https://recoveredman.com/225

In this episode, I talk about how to deal with uncertainty in turbulent times, 6 leadership lessons we can learn from polar explorer, Sir Ernest Shackleton, and the practical ways we can apply them to our recovery. https://recoveredman.com/224

How do we grow and transform in our lives? We have to go through the 4 C's of Recovery. And no one recovers without going through a period of courage. "Having courage and pursuing a goal despite fear," Dan Sullivan writes. "Is what moves us forward." In this episode, you'll learn the stages of recovery and why you may be stuck. https://recoveredman.com/223

Step One of any 12-step program says, "We admitted we were powerless..." But are we powerless? And if so how does it help us to admit this? https://recoveredman.com/222

With each new year, we reflect on what happened in the past 12 months and wonder, "what's next?" Well, what if I told you that life will have more meaning and satisfaction for you this year. Today's show is about painting a vision for you in 2020 and beyond. Let's go! https://recoveredman.com/221