Savage Lovecast

OMG! Don't you hate it when you go to a gay bar, make out with TWO gay men (even though you are a woman), and then totally don't remember it because you were, like, too drunk? How do you tell your on-again, off-again lover that you are suddenly into kink? This includes a bonus anti-choking sermon from Father Dan Savage. Don't do it. A lost lesbian bemoans the fact that she is a butch dyke attracted to other butch dykes. Can she meet anyone like her? Maybe if she moved out of Tulsa, Oklahoma… And more. 206-201-2720 You can and should comment on this show over at   

It's the one-minute wonder show! All calls less than one minute long! All answers less than one minute long! Why me talking like Hulk?    Topics covered: Friends with overgrown bushes, herpes dating sites, more come, less come, loud neighbors, master-slave role-play, icing on boobs and so much more.   Call us quickly!!  206-201-2720   This episode is brought to you by Audible. Download a free audio book of your choice today at   Comment on this episode at www.thestranger.com/lovecast.

When he first met his future wife in college, she was a sex machine. Now their sex life is vanilla and boring. Is it all over for him? Has he missed out?    Dan speaks with a staff member for the ACLU, doing the work and opening up a can of whup-ass on bigots and homophobes.   A woman begs Dan to decode her dark fantasies. And decode them he does.    And more.  206-201-2720   Today's episode is brought to you by . Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.   Check out the ACLU's latest project to prevent schools from blocking gay/lesbian websites: http://action.aclu.org/dontfilterme

How to engineer the perfect fuck-buddy. She has him somewhat trained. But he won't buy his own condoms, and he won't switch and let her sub for a while. Can she perfect him?    A woman and her husband have agreed to open up their marriage. But what will their friends and neighbors think when the gossip starts to fly?    A man and a woman are coworkers. They share a small lab space together and work long hours. She is in love with him. He isn't in love with her. That's one bad petri dish.    And more.  206-201-2720   Today's episode is brought to you by . Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.   This episode is brought to you by Audible. Download a free audio book of your choice today at     Comment on this episode at www.thestranger.com/lovecast

We start the show off with a little wedding drama. The best man turns out to be a skirt-chasing cad. Should the bride & groom boot him out of the wedding or plug their noses and let him stand up?    A married man isn't getting any at home. Can we blame him if he accepts the occasional blow job from a gay man?    An American woman living in the Middle-East is dating a Pakistani man. He's a lousy, selfish lover, and deeply religious. Any ideas what she should do with him?      Any ideas at all?  206-201-2720   This episode is brought to you by Audible. Download a free audio book of your choice today at  .   Comment on this episode at www.thestranger.com/lovecast  

At the age of 22, a married woman is sick of sex with her husband and wants to branch out. Can Dan save her marriage?  How can you avoid the typical pitfalls of a friends-with-benefits relationship?  After a sadistic lover violated her safe word, a kinky woman is feeling gun-shy about kinky sex. So is her husband.  And more. 206-201-2720  Today's episode is brought to you by . Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.        

Mike Huckabee? You're not going to like this show one bit.   When friends are dickheads: two tales of nasty pals. One who insults his girlfriend and treats her poorly. Another who writes about his girlfriend on a sex blog against her wishes. Eeesh.   She's young. She's kinky. She has a high sex drive. And… she likes to wear diapers and drink from a sippy cup. How can this lass find true love?   And a lot more. Tell us your tale, won't you? 206-201-2720   This episode is brought to you by Audible. Download a free audio book of your choice today at    Comment on this episode at    Comment on this episode at www.thestranger.com/lovecast  

A gay man who used to be bullied in high school testifies that when you get older, not only does it get better…it gets interesting.    Three tales of porn: A man's long distance girlfriend forbids him from watching porn. A porn-friendly lady wants more porn, porn made for ladies. And, a man's boyfriend fucks him like it's a porno movie- no foreplay, no nothing. And that sucks!    By the way, we hope you enjoyed Lady Porn Day.   Call us up!  206-201-2720   Today's episode is brought to you by . Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.

A crazy bitch who goes out dancing on a second date with a guy she really likes ends up making out with a completely different guy on the dance floor, and then she worries about being perceived as a "crazy bitch." "I want to do anal right," proclaims a man preparing to pleasure his girlfriend. To help field this one, Dan enlists the help of Tristan Taormino, author of "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women."  A man wonders aloud if he has any recourse when his white flannel sheets get stained with menstrual blood.  And more. There's always, always more.  Give us more: 206-201-2720   This episode is brought to you by Audible. Download a free audio book of your choice today at      

It's the long-awaited episode with Mistress Matisse! Meet one of the few people who can make Dan Savage squirm. Topics covered: a sub who scares her dom's dick; "skin play"; unsexy, unwilling hostage situations; and a lot more. Faggot + dominatrix = delightful rapport. 206-201-2720   This episode is brought to you by . Go buy something and be sure to enter "Pony" at checkout. Mistress commands you to visit her website: 

Come hear the tale of the lying bisexual who chickened out and denied her bisexuality to a friend. Now she's paying the price.  An ex-Mormon teen wants to have some casual hook-ups. But it turns out that you can take the girl out of Utah, but you can't take the Utah out of the girl.  The sugar-daddy decision: One caller is considering finding a sugar daddy to help pay the bills. Another caller has a chilling cautionary tale about being a sugar baby. Is it worth it?  Be careful ladies... 206-201-2720 Today's episode is brought to you by . Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.   Click here:  This episode is brought to you by Audible. Download a free audio book of your choice today at   

This week, Dan brings on Amy Lang—sex educator, author, and a generally hilarious and charming guest.  All of today's calls concern how parents deal with sexuality and how to talk to your kids about sex.      Call us at 206-201-2720 Today's episode is brought to you by . Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.    Learn about Amy Lang at  Amy will also be answering your questions over at   

A woman who broke up with her boyfriend after one year suffers from ADG (advanced dumper's guilt.) How can she get over it? In what sounds like an after-school special, a high-school couple really want to get it on. But the boy's violin teacher is poisoning the relationship! The drama! Violins! A queer woman wonders if she can maintain her friendship with a conservative Christian woman who thinks she's going to hell. How can you be friends with a woman like that?   Can you? 206-201-2720  Today's episode is brought to you by . Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout. Click here:   This episode is brought to you by Audible. Download a free audio book of your choice today at   

New and Improved!   Reduce, reuse, recycle. Does this apply to condoms? Should a boyfriend be expected to help pay for birth control pills? A rape survivor wonders if she should let her boyfriend engage in "rape play" as a form of therapy. And a lot more Call us at 206-201-2720 Today's episode is brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.  Click here: http://j.mp/SavageAdamEve 

Sorry about the sound quality on some of this, folks. It gets better.  Speaking of! Dan talks with the brilliant Rebecca Drysdale about her nearly perfect song/video to accompany the It Gets Better Project.  A woman's ex-lover and current roommate is wacking off in a pair of her old underwear. Just how creeped out should she be?  A bisexual man is frustrated that people (both men and women) dump him when they find out he's bi. So why should he even tell them?  And more.  Call us up. 206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Audible. Download a free audio book of your choice today at AudiblePodcast.com/Savage http://j.mp/savageaudible Check out Rebecca Drysdale's "It Gets Better" song and video here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cTQNwMxqM3E

A gay man posted some photos of himself wearing a dress. Now his family is FREAKING OUT. How can he explain that being a little freaky doesn't make him a transsexual?  Meanwhile, a very game woman is dating a confused cross-dresser. Is he gay? Is he transexual? Dan chats with Helen Boyd- author of "My Husband Betty" to get the scoop. A bisexual man is not out to his family. Is he morally obligated to tell them even when he doesn't have a boyfriend?  All this, and more.  Call us at 206-201-2720 Today's episode is brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.  Click here: http://j.mp/SavageAdamEve   

A college co-ed is mortified at her own behavior at a frat party. Can she recast her image from drunken ho to witty sophisticate?  After 12 years of marriage a man finds himself at an impasse. He's not getting any. She's not giving any. He doesn't want to pay for it, demand it or lie about it. What's a hard-up husband to do?  It's hard to be out n' proud when you just feel like a lesbian homewrecker.    Hey baby. How's it goin'? Did you find this podcast "formulaic?" 206-201-2720     This episode is brought to you by Audible.com Download a free audio book of your choice today at www.audiblepodcast.com/savage  

Her boyfriend wets the bed. Should this be a dealbreaker?  A straight man repeatedly "finds himself" getting his dick sucked by his creepy neighbor. Bi-curious much?  A 16 year old girl gets busted by her mother for sending pictures of herself to a 39 year old man. Who's the hero here? Call us.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Audible.com Download a free audio book of your choice today at www.audiblepodcast.com/savage Check out Dan's It Gets Better Project  

"It's not you. I'm just not ready for a relationship." How should a man deal with these crazy-making words? A woman used to be a bit of a slut. Now she's monogamous with her man. But the man keeps obsessing about her past. How can they build trust? Don't you hate it when your new boyfriend has a crazy girlfriend that he's recently impregnated?    Jealousy. It's what's for dinner.   206-201-2720   Today's episode is brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.  Click here: http://j.mp/SavageAdamEve   Check out Dan's It Gets Better Project

A gay man's entire Catholic family knows he's gay. When will he come out already so they can meet his boyfriend?  Want to punish your parents? Why not join a queer porn collective?  Birthday etiquette: A concerned aunt gives her lesbian niece a packet of ex-gay propaganda, warning that she will go to hell if she doesn't magically turn straight. Is this a) kind, b) polite, c) a fun gift to get, or d) none of the above.    Relatives! 206-201-2720   Today's episode is brought to you by Adam and Eve. Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.  Click here: http://j.mp/SavageAdamEve   This episode is brought to you by Audible. Download a free audio book of your choice today here: http://j.mp/savageaudible