Beat Your Genes: An Evolutionary Psychology Podcast For Finding Happiness In The Modern World

She grew up in a family of surgeons, a Google computer scientist, and a NASA astrophysicist, and she became a flight attendant who wanted to be a housewife. Now her genius-level family calls her the failure. Dr. Doug Lisle breaks down why esteem, not intelligence, is the real currency of human life, why some families are simply too disagreeable to invest in, and why you may need to build your own village instead of chasing approval from people who will never give it. Dr. Lisle also shares the personal, evolutionary logic behind why he takes care of his 93-year-old mother, and how "social ecology" determines the emotional tone of your entire existence. 00:00 – Intro / cold open 00:29 – Listener question: family of geniuses vs. the "black sheep" 02:22 – Life as resource acquisition and defense 04:09 – Why humans are the most social species 05:56 – Why Dr. Lisle cares for his 93-year-old mother (evolutionary logic) 09:28 – Esteem as the central currency of human life 11:51 – The four markets of life: mates, frie