Beat Your Genes: An Evolutionary Psychology Podcast For Finding Happiness In The Modern World

Most people assume that whoever cares less in a relationship holds the power. In this episode, Dr. Doug Lisle explains why that framing gets it completely backwards. What people call the "care gap" isn't a power move at all. It's a signal about what's actually happening in the competitive marketplace both partners are operating in. Whether you're feeling the gap or causing it, the real question isn't who cares more. It's why. As Dr. Lisle explains, what's actually driving that dynamic, and what to do about it, depends on a highly individual matrix of mate value, aging, personality, and life circumstances. In this episode: ·       0:00 — Announcement: Beat Your Genes is returning to YouTube. Subscribe at @BeatYourGenes ·       1:52 — The care gap question: why does he seem to stop trying after the relationship stabilizes? ·       12:30 — How mate value shifts differently for men and women after 40, and why evolution designed it that way ·       24:15 — The love instinct, the magic 10%, and why Match.com di