The New Man

Comedian Kyle Kinane (Comedy Central, Trampoline in a Ditch) discusses why we need to laugh at ourselves, getting caught up in comparisons, and confronting our fear of rejection. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/07/kyle-kinane-trampoline-in-a-ditch

Jaimal Yogis (Saltwater Buddha, The Fear Project) on mindfulness, meditation, and riding emotional waves. Also discussed: fatherhood, common misconceptions about meditation, and the trap of trying to outrun what makes us uncomfortable. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/07/jaimal-yogis

Fear of failure, choosing to play big, and getting over yourself - An excerpt from "This Book Will Make You Dangerous" by Tripp Lanier. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/07/this-book-will-make-you-dangerous-fear-of-failure

Erik Everhard, author of Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers has been in the porn industry for over 20 years. He’s had sex with over 4,000 women. Today we discuss what it was like to have such a unique career, how he ended up feeling lost, and how he found his way again after learning how to help others. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/06/erik-everhard-book

Kwame Christian, Director of American Negotiation Institute discusses how ego, vanity, and “calling out” get in the way of resolving conflicts with family, business, politics, and race. Plus: tips for having more effective online discussions. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/06/kwame-christian-negotiation-conflict-resolution

Recently I learned a valuable lesson: that I could actually talk to my black friends about race instead of making assumptions and relying on the media or some idealogical group to tell me what to say, think, or do. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/06/how-to-talk-about-race

The Starbucks Shootout — Why trying not to screw up has us screw things up. An excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous by Tripp Lanier. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/06/this-book-will-make-you-dangerous-the-starbucks-shootout

How to Use Death to Become More Powerful. An excerpt from This Book Will Make You Dangerous by Tripp Lanier. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/05/this-book-will-make-you-dangerous-step-into-power

Do you ever play it safe when it comes to money or sex? Do you take risks or only go for what appears to be a “sure thing?” How to get out of your own way, stop playing it safe, and find that mojo again. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/05/playing-it-safe

The audiobook introduction from This Book Will Make You Dangerous by Tripp Lanier. A very unconventional look at why I throw most success how-to books in the trash. Learn more by visiting DangerousBookstore.com. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/05/this-book-will-make-you-dangerous-tripp-lanier

With so much uncertainty, how do you deal with the uncomfortable feelings? What if it all came crashing down? What could possibly exist on the other side of your worst nightmare? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/05/facing-fear

Confronting Fear, Scarcity, and Pressure. Will you follow the herd that’s freaking out or find the opportunity? Plus: using discomfort to find clarity, forging your own path, and why most guys settle. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/04/fear-scarcity-pressure

What do we do when success is unfulfilling? Do you think more success and status are the keys to lasting fulfillment? And what happens when our achievements leave us feeling empty? Plus: victim mentality and our comfort zone https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/03/unfulfilling-success

If you want more out of life then what’s really getting in the way? Why do we have such a hard time making a commitment? And what’s so wrong with trying to live happily ever after? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/03/commitment-issues

How pro coach and New Man podcast host Tripp Lanier went from very confident to very lost; how he spent years dicking around while waiting for the perfect plan; and how he finally pulled his head out of his ass and got back on track. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/02/get-out-your-own-way

Tripp and Alyson Lanier discuss a bold way to start a relationship, making commitments, and the danger of being a nice guy. Also: Way of the Superior Man by David Deida, truth vs comfort, and the danger of waiting for the perfect plan. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2020/02/starting-relationship

Have you ever suffered from “imposter syndrome”? Are you okay with simply chasing money or do you want your work to be meaningful, too? And how often do you tell yourself, “I will figure this out”? Today, The Middle Finger Project author Ash Ambirge is here to discuss how she went from growing up in a trailer park to middle class success to sleeping in a K-Mart parking lot with only $26 to her name to eventually making seven figures. In this interview: Growing up in a trailer park Being mentally tough Being willing to rock the boat Striving for middle class Why becoming “normal” was so disappointing Plus: Dealing with imposter syndrome The feeling of “I don’t know what I’m supposed to do next.” Doing work you’re proud of Wanting our work to align with our values Feeling guilty for wanting more out of life And: Ash’s “sleeping in a K-Mart parking lot” story “I will figure it out.” The key to being “Unf*ckwithable” The trouble of not having your own money Learning how to provide value You don't have to

Do you feel guilty for wanting more out of life? Is it possible to outgrow your current profession or relationship? And would you have to blow up everything you care about in order to make a big change? Today my wife Alyson and I pick up where we left off in the previous episode entitled, The Emotionally Constipated Control Freak. In this conversation we explore taking responsibility for what we want, the seduction of settling, and the one question that kicked me in the gut. In this interview: Living a split life “Stop being a spoiled brat.” Focusing on problems vs solutions Feeling guilty for wanting more out of life Plus: Have you outgrown your life? The Drama Triangle - Victim, Persecutor, Rescuer Shifting from bitching to focusing on what you want Are you defensive or curious? The fear of being broke and alone And: “Do you feel like you’re settling?” The myth: “I have to blow up my life in order to make a change.” Are you being lulled to sleep? Waiting for the perfect, safe plan The phone call that

How important is it for you to be in control? Do you ever feel like your life is out of alignment with your values? And what does it take to forgive someone who has hurt you deeply? Today my wife, Alyson Lanier gets curious about the emotionally constipated guy I used to be back in my early 20’s. We talk about why I went to therapy, why I hated the idea of personal growth, and how my life looked amazing from the outside but was a fragmented mess on the inside. In this interview: Does Alyson have a fart fetish? Being a control freak Trying to outrun my emotional world Being afraid of women Navigating an emotional minefield Plus: Why I went to therapy Dealing with loss Considering suicide The difference between relief and peace of mind “The peace I was deeply wanting was on the other side of that thing I was avoiding.” And: Ken Wilber’s The Marriage of Sense and Soul Being out of alignment with inner values “They’re going to think I’m weird.” Playing it safe professionally “Is this it? What now? Why ca

Lebron James spends $1 million dollars per year on his health. What do you spend to ensure that your body doesn’t hold you back? Functional Medicine Health Consultant Jon Mitchell is here to challenge the dogmatic, cookie cutter approaches so that you can dial in the unique protocol that works best for your body. In this interview: Why so many are settling for aches, pains, and low energy Why regular docs aren’t always the best resource Why chasing your problem with supplements isn’t sustainable Why cookie cutter diets don’t work for everyone Erectile dysfunction as it relates to your health Plus: Are you a liability to yourself, performance, and quality of life? Why health is the vehicle for having the life you want Peace of mind knowing that your body is on track Playing the amateur or choosing to turn pro Cutting through the noise of online experts and gurus and diets You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Na