Sexual Disorientation

Silvia Saige will soon be the first woman featured on Men.com, a gay male porn site. She and Dr. Ramani brace for a backlash. Then, they offer do's and don'ts for summer romance! Silvia explains how bi scenes with gay performers are still taboo in the porn business, raising bigger questions about the line between "sexual identity" and "who you have sex with." They consider the political undertones of straight sexuality encroaching on a safe space for gay men, even as Dr. Ramani struggles with the de-legitimization of bisexual identity across all of culture. Then, Ramani explains why summer is traditionally the "dry season" for relationship therapists, but that doesn't mean everyone avoids relationship drama. We break down how to have a successful fling — Dr Ramani Durvasula (@doctorramani) is a licensed clinical psychologist and Professor of Psychology. Silvia Saige (@silviasaigexxx, @silviasaigesex) is an adult film actress and standup comedian. Write us with your questions: [email protected] --