Sexual Disorientation

Dr Ramani and Silvia Saige explore "the chase," and the growing narrative that men wooing women are damned if they do and damned if they don't. -- HAVE YOU EVER HAD AN EXPERIENCE WITH A SUITOR WHO WOULD NOT GIVE UP? Someone who felt wronged when you turned them down? Someone who pushed "the chase" too far? Or maybe it turned out they were actually "the one"? We want to discuss your story. Write us, ALWAYS ANONYMOUS, at: [email protected] -- In a wide-ranging discussion, Ramani finds parallels between the "alpha" men at the top of society and the self-professed "beta" men on the bottom. Might they be on the same side of a spectrum? If so, what's on the other side? Silvia has first-hand experience with how incels attack, and how "giving someone a shot" because you're trying to be nice can backfire. -- Dr Ramani Durvasula (@doctorramani) is a licensed clinical psychologist and Professor of Psychology. Silvia Saige (@silviasaigexxx, @silviasaigesex) is an adult film actress and standup comedian.   Ge