Dad Starting Over Podcast

His wife said it five or six times over the course of a year. "If you need it that bad, just go find it somewhere else." He sat her down one night and asked her to confirm it. She did. Twice.A few weeks later he had one phone call with an old friend from college. Ninety minutes. No flirting. Nothing physical. She was going through her own divorce and needed someone to talk to.A few days later, his wife went through his phone, found the unfamiliar number, and called it herself just to see who would pick up. A woman answered. She went nuclear. Then she looked him in the eye and said she never gave him permission. He made it up. It was a lie.If you're in a sexless marriage, you've probably heard some version of "go find it somewhere else." It feels like a permission slip. It isn't. It's a test, a bluff, a quiet insult about your value as a man, and sometimes a flat-out trap. And when you finally act on it, even in the most innocent way possible, she might erase the whole conversation from the record.In this vide