Order Of Man: Protect | Provide | Preside

Do you ever wonder why comparing yourself to others can sometimes leave you feeling deflated and stuck? In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unravels the comparison trap and its profound impact on personal development and self-confidence. He tackles the issue head-on by exploring how negative comparisons create feelings of inadequacy and impede progress.  Listen in as Ryan shares three practical strategies to turn those comparisons into powerful sources of inspiration and motivation. By recognizing the achievements of others and understanding that success isn’t a zero-sum game, we can transform envy into admiration and propel ourselves forward. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:45) Overcoming the Comparison Trap (08:48) Navigating Comparison and Humility in Leadership (23:10) Embracing Growth Through Peer Learning Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, re

In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler addresses masculinity and its role in society and its significance from politics to personal growth. Ryan emphasizes the virtues of strength, courage, and fortitude, balanced with empathy and grace. Learn how to graciously accept compliments, reflect on personal concerns, and approach challenges with a solution-oriented mindset. From the importance of masculine virtues to the political spectrum’s impact on these ideals, Ryan discusses what it means to embody true masculinity today.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:43) Starting a Business (08:44) Crafting Business Stories for Success (17:29) Navigating Masculinity and Pride Acceptance (24:06) Learning to Accept Compliments and Gratitude (28:42) Embracing Masculine Virtues Without Compromise (34:08) Exploring Masculinity in Politics and Society (45:07) Parenting, Relationships, and Personal Development (52:09) Navigating Offense and Saving People Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new b

Empathy. It’s likely a word that conjures up unnecessary softness or, even weakness. But there’s nothing weak about being empathetic and it certainly does mean you need to allow others to wallow in their own self-pity or walk all over you. In fact, when utilized correctly, empathy can be a powerful tool for realizing your full potential and influencing others positively along their own path. My guest today, David Waldy, joins me to make the case for men adding a level of what he calls fierce empathy into their lives. We talk about what empathy really means, why we lie to others and ourselves, how to stop lying, learning to heal yourself strategically and tactically, borrowing from other people’s success, and how to craft and utilize a new identity for who you are. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Fierce Empathy and Recovering Nice Guys (08:36) Truth and Self-Deception (22:13) Healing and Self-Discovery Process (28:15) Defining and Uncovering True Identity (34:10) Modeling Behavior for Personal Gr

Feeling down doesn't always mean you're clinically depressed, but how do you distinguish between the two? In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan tackles the rising issue of depression among men, shedding light on the feelings of sadness, loneliness, and inadequacy many experience due to life challenges such as divorce, addiction, loss, and medical complications. He unpacks eight practical strategies designed to help you navigate these emotional waters and improve your mental well-being, with a reminder that seeking professional help is crucial if you're dealing with chronic or clinical depression.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:40) Understanding and Combatting Depression in Men (13:36) Strategies for Emotional Wellness (23:53) Embracing Hobbies and Avoiding Isolation (33:29) Overcoming Challenges and Choosing Productivity (42:34) Joining the Iron Council for Men Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council broth

Tune in to this week's Ask Me Anything as Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle the nuances of preparing for parenthood and balancing personal health with professional success. They share practical tips on maintaining focus and building a strong family foundation, together with insights on teaching essential skills to children. The conversation also ventures into the realm of handling sexual temptations and fostering intimacy in relationships, offering disciplined approaches and open communication strategies. Whether you're a parent, partner, or professional, this episode will resonate and inspire transformative action in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Maintaining Motivation and Avoiding Echo Chambers (13:57) Preparing for Parenthood (25:27) Exploring Personal Insecurities (31:08) Understanding and Addressing Insecurities (38:59) Starting a Family and Overcoming Challenges (42:53) Teaching Skills and Parenting Values (56:32) Navigating Sexual Temptations and Relationship Intimacy (01

Whenever I (or one of my guests) introduces the concept of male initiation, it’s met with skepticism, at best, and a level of immense disdain and vitriol, at worst. But why is it that men struggle so much with the concept of initiation, that is to say that a man must learn from other men what it means to be a man and be held accountable to maintain his moral duty to protect, provide, and preside? My guest today, Jake Hamilton, makes the case for male initiation drawing on ancient initiations in some of the most remote locations on the planet. We talk about how to harness a man’s sexual desire towards productive outcomes, what the lowest form of a man’s identity is, where the patriarchy falls short, integrating your “shadow” (something Jung unpacks deeply), the difference between working toward the greater good and the common good, and how a man answers his own internal desire to be respected and desired.  SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (04:00) The Crisis of Masculinity Today (17:21) Initiating Boys In

Can you spot the difference between being nice and being kind? Many people mistakenly view niceness as a surefire way to a woman's heart, but in this week's Friday Field Notes latest episode Ryan Michler reveals why this approach often leads to manipulation rather than attraction.  Ryan shares practical tips on clearly stating your intentions, understanding what women truly seek in a partner, and cultivating genuine romantic connections. Whether you're single and struggling with the friend zone or feeling like a roommate in your marriage, his insights will help you create and rebuild intimacy in your relationships. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:43) Avoid Friend Zone, Rebuild Intimacy (15:26) Assertive Romantic Relationships and Boundaries (23:17) Mastering the Dating Game Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for o

In this no-holds-barred "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan and Duane dissect the controversy surrounding the Olympics, emphasizing the importance of meritocracy and performance. The conversation then shifts to the political landscape, urging men to step up and actively engage in their communities. They offer practical advice on building a strong work ethic and finding purpose, reminding listeners that discipline leads to freedom. Finally, they delve into matters of faith, encouraging listeners to trust their gut and act on righteous impulses. It's a raw, unfiltered discussion that challenges listeners to embrace their masculinity and take charge of their lives. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Controversy Over Breakdancing in Olympics   (11:36) Defining Masculinity and Bold Convictions   (17:58) Military Leadership and Transition Discussion   (23:20) Political Engagement and Future Vision   (32:57) Developing Long-Term Goals and Work Ethic   (38:08) Surrounding Yourself With High Achievers   (47:02

What does it take to be a tough, rugged, bastard? And, is it something a man should strive to become? My guest today is a retired marine and after spending 20 years in special operations in the Marine Corps, has gone on to lead training for all Marine Raiders (after being disbanded after WWII) and developing many of the systems and leadership protocols for some of the most elite fighting members of our modern-day military. His name is John Dailey and, today, we talk about the future of combat, modern-day enlistment challenges for the US military, where mental toughness comes from and how to develop it, the issues with “moral injury” as it relates to PTSD, the rules of combat, standard operating procedures, and rules of engagement that hinder our efficacy, and how and why every man needs to become a tough, rugged bastard. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (04:02) Ethics and Challenges of Combat   (18:47) Reflections on Combat Experience and Morality   (26:26) History and Creation of Marine Raiders   (33:04

Passivity among men is destroying their potential and derailing society. It's time to redefine masculinity by embracing assertiveness and courage. In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down how true masculinity means actively addressing injustices with both strength and respect. He explores the fine line between assertiveness and bullying, offering actionable steps men can take to be more effective and impactful in their daily lives. You'll learn how to foster a balanced approach that marries boldness with respect for others, setting the stage for meaningful change. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:48) - Assertive Masculinity (04:45) - Defining Your Goals and Boundaries (10:26) - Embracing Assertive Masculinity   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

In this episode of ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Duane Winkel discuss key topics like masculinity, critical thinking, and personal responsibility. They talk about the importance of clearly understanding and expressing one's beliefs, assuming positive intent, and taking responsibility. They also offer advice to parents on guiding young men in a time of conflicting ideas about manhood. They explore how their views on masculine values, especially leadership, have evolved to include emotional and spiritual support. Additionally, they share practical strategies for overcoming negative self-talk, supporting spouses, and the challenges of transitioning from corporate careers to entrepreneurship. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:45) Defining Masculinity and Taking Ownership (10:17) Revisiting Masculine Values in Brotherhood (15:14) Addressing Self-Talk and Supporting Spouses (27:17) Supporting Partners in Self-Improvement (38:23) Fostering Brotherhood and Team Development (43:04) Transitioning to Entrep

Settled in a lodge in South Africa, the last few days have been a whirlwind of adventure. From the thrill of a unique hunting experience to photo safaris, our journey has been both meticulously planned and spontaneous. Rick and I kick off this episode by sharing our unexpected joys and the lessons we've learned about letting go of control. Plus, get a sneak peek into our new business venture that's all about inspiring others to hit the road and explore the world, starting from a seemingly simple one-way ticket to Normandy. This week's returning guest is Rick Trimmer, both a friend and travel companion. Venturing beyond the hunt, we dive deep into the essence of stepping out of your comfort zone. Our African escapade hasn't just been about the game; it’s also about helicopter rides, cultural immersion, and visits to local orphanages. Tackling common barriers like financial constraints and fear, we share personal anecdotes that highlight the life-changing impact of taking risks. It's the adventures and experien

What does it mean to truly lead in today's political landscape?  In this week's Friday Field Notes episode Ryan dissects the notion of masculine political positions, particularly as election season heats up. Ryan outlines eight critical stances—grounded in protection, provide, and preside. From "peace through strength" that underscores the importance of a robust defense, to the imperative of national sovereignty, he provides a comprehensive guide to understanding and advocating for these values. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Masculine Political Positions and Civil Discourse (12:55) Second Amendment and Family Values (17:49) Empowering Fathers and Free Markets (25:08) The Concept of Equality Versus Equity Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Unlock the secrets to financial resilience in turbulent times and gain a fresh perspective on stress management and productivity. This episode promises to equip you with practical strategies for navigating market volatility, and provide actionable insights inspired by Warren Buffett and "Atomic Habits." Also, powerful financial habits, such as dollar-cost averaging and diversification, that can help you maintain stability and growth even amidst uncertainty, reinforcing the value of a disciplined approach to your investments. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:55) Market Volatility and Financial Habits (12:18) The Pitfalls of Victim Mentality (19:12) Navigating Complex Societal Issues (25:27) Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth (33:10) Choosing Health Over Conventional Treatment (46:02) Navigating Personal Challenges and Growth (53:03) Navigating Personal Legacy and Influence Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Ir

If you’re like the other 95% of people on the planet, you eat too eat meat. But too little time is spent considering where one of the largest sources of meat comes from in America – Cattle. With broken food supply chains exposed during COVID, outsourced beef and processing to foreign countries, and the deceptive practices of those who label our beef products, it’s hard to know what you’re really getting. My guest today, former Navy SEAL, Greg Putnam, is doing something about it with a company he founded along with fellow Navy SEAL, Tim Sheehy called Little Belt Cattle Company. Greg and I discuss where our beef actually comes from, the balance between quality and quantity cattle ranchers have to find, the pros and cons of large industrial beef processing compared to the smaller, local ranches, what “grass-fed” and “organic” beef actually means, the importance of being connected with our food sources, and why we need to re-think the American beef supply. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Here are the timestamps with 4 minutes an

In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unlocks the secrets to becoming a well-rounded man through an exploration of seven masculine archetypes, inspired by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette. Gain valuable insights into harnessing traits like visionary leadership, moral conviction, and keen intellect while embodying the motto: "protect, provide, preside."  Reflect on strengths and weaknesses through these archetypes with examples of real people. This self-assessment encourages recognizing areas for improvement and taking steps toward personal development. Ryan concludes with a call to action to consider additional perspectives for becoming the best version of yourself. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:42) - The Seven Masculine Archetypes (10:48) - Warrior, Jester and Scholar (24:28) - Priest, King and Statesman (36:34) - Embracing Masculine Archetypes for Growth Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council

In this week's Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp discuss the controversy surrounding the 2024 Olympics' opening ceremonies, using it to highlight the importance of focusing on positive content over disruptive provocations. They examine superficial public apologies, historical ignorance, and the promotion of communism. On a personal level, they explore emotional complexities, such as balancing grief with parenthood, expressing masculinity, and setting life standards. They offer practical advice on guiding younger siblings towards maturity, shifting from a selfish mindset to one of service, and navigating divorce challenges. The episode provides a multifaceted dialogue on these issues. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) - Episode Intro (00:44) - Olympic Opening Ceremonies (04:30) - Cultural Critique and Social Awareness (16:34) - Navigating Grief and Parenthood (22:16) - Emotional Expression and Masculinity (34:01) - Establishing Standards and Manly Behaviors (41:55) - Influencing Brothers to Grow Up (51:29) - Mindset Shift

Many men believe the American Dream is dead. Just take a look that the upcoming Presidential election and you’ll often hear how many will, in utter surrender and defeat, say, “My vote doesn’t count anyways so why do it?” Or, take a look at how many men will through up their hands and exclaim that there’s nothing they can do about their marriage, the economy, their job, or their circumstances. And, while there is much outside of our control, there is much still within it. My guest today, Mark Matson, founder of Matson Money is here to tell us why experiencing the American dream is not out of reach for those who may previously have thought so. We talk about how to invest your time, money, and energy wisely, an academic approach to intelligent investing taking into consideration human brain science, discovering a whole new way to see the world, the forces standing between you and the American Dream (and how to overcome them), and the crucial importance of developing what he calls, “Your Future View.” SHOW HIGHLI

In this episode of Friday Field Notes, uncover why the lone wolf mentality, often romanticized in media, is a recipe for disaster when reality hits hard. Learn how engaging in activities like jujitsu can foster essential connections, promoting not just competition and improvement but genuine camaraderie among men. Ryan emphasizes the importance of intentionally seeking out manly activities to meet like-minded individuals. From shooting at the gun range to playing basketball and participating in Spartan races, these activities are more than just hobbies—they are avenues to forge lasting friendships. Ryan breaks down the initial discomfort that comes with meeting new people and highlight the power of asking for help as a connection strategy. Personal anecdotes illustrate how these efforts have led to meaningful and supportive networks. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:45) Building a Band of Brothers (04:20) Connecting Through Manly Activities (16:05) Building Bonds Through Activities (21:16) Strong Mal

What happens when a chaotic Monday meets groundbreaking political news? In this week's Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp dive deep into the potential fallout of Kamala Harris stepping in, the disappointment of Biden’s 14 million voters, and the legal mess that might follow. Plus, check out Ryan's latest gear: a Sig Sauer P365X Macro pistol and Ryan's rugged hike in Capitol Reef and why he switched from Glock to Sig. Ryan and Kipp also tackle the crucial role of community and moral responsibility, especially in California's shifting legislative landscape. They lay out a solid case for teaching personal responsibility and resilience in strong, engaged communities, particularly for kids who lack stable home environments. Their conversation delves into managing a busy household, financial pressures, and the emotional regulation needed to lead a family effectively.  Finally, discover how to build sustainable habits and forge strong relationships with actionable advice from Ryan and Kipp. From crushing fitness goals t