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In this special episode, we discuss positive and supportive ways to respond when an LGBTQ loved one comes out to you (even if it's news that you may not understand or agree with). We talk about practical ways to show unconditional love rather than being reactive by diving into theological or political debates. Suggested Resources: -Freed Hearts Ministry: https://www.freedhearts.org -Church Clarity: https://www.churchclarity.org

This is a special episode where Tres gives an important update about his ministry and also tells his story.

In this episode, we interview Gregory Coles, author of Single, Gay, Christian, which is his memoir about growing up gay in the evangelical church. Gregory talks about his journey of reconciling his faith with his sexuality, and how he ultimately felt called to celibacy in his walk with Christ.  To learn more about Gregory go to: http://www.gregorycoles.com Gregory's book: "Single, Gay, Christian": https://amzn.to/33m7hPV Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here: https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/acc    

In this episode, Tres presents a sermon on understanding God more fully. We cover common misconceptions of God that can negatively impact a person's spirituality and mental health, and contrast that with a more accurate picture of who God really is as seen through Jesus Christ. Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here: https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/acc  

In this episode, we discuss how survivors of abuse can find hope and healing. We focus on the effects of emotional and verbal abuse and how they can affect a person years after the abuse has ended. Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here: https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/acc  

We interview Whitney Owens, a licensed professional counselor and owner of a group practice in Savannah, Georgia. Whitney describes how she integrates faith into the counseling process and talks about the challenges of growing a faith-based counseling practice. Water's Edge Counseling (Savannah, GA): https://watersedgecounseling.com Whitney's Consulting and Mastermind Group: https://practiceofthepractice.lpages.co/faith-mastermind/ Looking for help? Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here: https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/acc

How do you take care of someone when the issues they are facing seem insurmountable? We discuss a biblical approach to spiritual care for counselors, pastors, and church leaders helping others with difficult situations. Resources Mentioned: Acquainted with Grief (Roger Daniels): https://amzn.to/31gmYYd Caring for People God's Way (Timothy Clinton): https://amzn.to/2LMREcW Looking for help? Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here: https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/acc    

In this special episode, we interview McKrae Game, the former leader of one of the largest ex-gay organizations in the country. Conversion therapy refers to any attempt to change a person's sexual orientation, whether through psychotherapy, pastoral counseling, or support group programs. Recommended Resources The Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org QChristian: https://www.qchristian.org Books on the Affirming View: Torn: Rescuing the Gospel from the Gays-vs.-Christians Debate (Justin Lee): https://www.amazon.com/Torn-Rescuing-Gospel-Gays-vs-Christians-Debate/dp/1455514306 God and the Gay Christian (Matthew Vines): https://www.amazon.com/God-Gay-Christian-Biblical-Relationships/dp/160142518X Scripture, Ethics, and the Possibility of Same-Sex Relationships (Karen Keen): https://www.amazon.com/Scripture-Ethics-Possibility-Same-Sex-Relationships/dp/0802876544 Books on the Traditional View: Washed and Waiting (Wesley Hill): https://www.amazon.com/Washed-Waiting-Reflections-Faithfulness-Homosexuality/

In this episode, we discuss how emotional growth and spiritual maturity are inseparable. We also discuss what emotional intelligence is and connect the concept with biblical principles. The Christian DISC® Assessment: https://www.christianpersonalitytest.com/ The Christian DISC® Certification Course: https://www.christianpersonalitytest.com/certification Looking for help? Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here: https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/acc

​In this episode, Tres discusses personality theory and the Christian DISC®, a biblical personality assessment that helps people identify their temperament, and includes practical and biblical suggestions for growing in character. Learn more about the Christian DISC® at: https://www.christianpersonalitytest.com Looking for help? Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here: https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/acc  

In this episode, we discuss what happens when someone doubts their faith. With grace and compassion, we talk about how doubt is really just honesty that can lead to a deeper understanding of what you believe, and can even lead to a deeper faith in God. Looking for help? Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here: https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/acc  

In this interview with Lisa Peterson, we discuss trauma and PTSD. Lisa is a licensed therapist who provides EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), which is a treatment for those suffering from trauma and PTSD. We discuss the process of healing from trauma, especially from a Christian perspective. EMDR Therapy with Lisa: https://www.arizonachristiancounseling.com/lisa-peterson Find an EMDR therapist near you: http://www.emdr.com/SEARCH/index.php Looking for help? Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here: https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/acc  

In this impromptu episode, we discuss two seemingly unrelated (but still connected) subjects. We talk more about personality theory and the Christian DISC™. We also discuss what it means to be positive through the lens of Christian counseling, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, and Positive Psychology. Take the free version of the Christian DISC™ Assessment: https://www.askachristiancounselor.net/disc.html Learn how to become a Certified Christian DISC™ Facilitator: https://www.christianpersonalitytest.com/certification.html Looking for help? Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here: https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/acc

How can a couple improve their relationship? Through communication—but what does that mean? In this episode, we discuss the importance of empathy and how it is essential in making communication work so couples can grow closer and feel connected. Looking for help? Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here.

In this episode, we talk about personality—specifically the attributes that make a person an introvert or an extrovert. We discuss the strengths and blindspots of both and discuss the Christian DISC™ Assessment, which helps users understand themselves and others from a biblical perspective. Take a free version of the Christian DISC™ to discover your personality type. Looking for help? Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here.

How can one overcome obsessive compulsive disorder? What happens when OCD takes on a spiritual component? In this episode, we discuss hope for Christians struggling with OCD. Looking for help? Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here.

Can you be gay and Christian? In this important episode, we discuss this controversial issue with grace that addresses various sides of the debate. We also share resources and insight for those struggling to reconcile their sexuality and faith.  Resources Mentioned: • QChristian • Torn: Rescuing the Gospel from the Gays-vs.-Christians Debate (Justin Lee) Books for Those on Side B: • Washed and Waiting (Wesley Hill) • Single, Gay, Christian: A Personal Journey of Faith and Sexual Identity (Gregory Coles) Books for Those on Side A: • God and the Gay Christian (Matthew Vines) • Scripture, Ethics, and the Possibility of Same-Sex Relationships (Karen Keen) Looking for help? Faithful Counseling provides online counseling with Christian licensed therapists. For 10% off your first month, visit here.

In this episode, Tres discusses his own experience dealing with burnout and goes over some biblical principles for alleviating stress, setting boundaries, and finding time for rest and restoration.  For more resources, visit our new online store on our website. Support for our show comes from Faithful Counseling where you can talk to a Christian licensed therapist online today. Take 10% off your first month.

On this 100th episode of the podcast, Tres answers several questions from listeners with special guest, Jeanette Hovis. Resources Mentioned: Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend Codependent No More by Melody Bettie Love is a Choice by Robert Hemfelt, Paul Meier. Support for our show comes from Faithful Counseling where you can talk to a Christian licensed therapist online today. Take 10% off your first month.

Holidays can be stressful for those with dysfunctional families. In this episode, we discuss family dynamics as well as ways to set boundaries with difficult family members. We also discuss how a family genogram can help one learn more about one's family background and dynamics. Resources Mentioned: Genograms for Beginners by Tres Adames How to Set Boundaries (article) Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend Generation to Generation by Edwin Friedman Support for our show comes from Faithful Counseling where you can talk to a Christian licensed therapist online today. Take 10% off your first month.