Put A Ring On It: The Wedding Planning Podcast

Who you choose to be in your Wedding Party – and who you DON’T choose - is a very big decision for your wedding. In this episode, we share some trends on how couples are tweaking this age-old tradition to better reflect the people that matter most to them. This includes using more inclusive terminology, focusing less on someone’s gender or having “even” sides, and potentially forgoing having a wedding party altogether. We talked about:Modern and inclusive terminologyTraditions of the pastIs it ok to have uneven sides?Mixed-gender wedding partiesVIPs that are supportive of both partnersOpting not to have a wedding partySome tips to keep in mind when deciding who you do (and don’t) want to include Links mentioned:Episode 6: Reinterpreting Weddings with Kathryn HammEpisode 83: Involving Kids In Your Wedding Plans Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing suppo

EPISODE 100!!!

In episode 99, we’re talking about how you can build your wedding budget around your priorities of the day. Because very few of us have a truly “unlimited” budget and that means that we can’t necessarily get #allthethings we want. So, starting with a budget and a conversation about your priorities makes navigating the world of wedding planning much less stressful and confusing. We talked about:Who should have a wedding budgetHow to know what to budgetWhat makes a great eventGetting granular on what makes an event “great” to youWhat your priorities have to do with your budgetWhy it’s important to track your budgetA simple and beautiful way to keep track of your wedding budget Links mentioned:Episode 38: Four Fundamentals To Hosting A Great EventWedding Budget Tracker Spreadsheet Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:

It’s certainly an episode title that we never imagined having back in 2016. But in 2021, we’re now over a year into the COVID-19 global pandemic. In this episode, we’re discussing how it’s affected so many couples as they plan their weddings and what it means for those that are newly engaged. We talked about:How all areas and couples are experiencing this pandemic differently regarding restrictions around their weddingsWhy we encourage everyone to follow your local, state, and CDC guidelines for the safety of everyonePostponing a wedding and the ups and downs of thatLessons learned from postponing MANY weddingsDealing with wedding shaming as a coupleSome advice for those that are getting married in the upcoming monthsOur official welcome to those that are newly engaged and hopping onto this wild rideTwo important tips for planning a wedding in 2022 and beyond Links mentioned:Brides: Wedding Shaming Is Real: What It Is and How to Handle ItCDC Guidance for Organizing Large Events and Gatherings Join the "Ringer

We’re back for Season 9 and coming at you with some REAL TALK, Ringers. In this episode, we chat with comedian, author, and former bride, Jamie Lee, as she shares her story of wedding planning and the parts of it that aren’t as “warm and fuzzy”. Jamie also gives us a peek at her upcoming show, “The Wedding Coach” which drops on Netflix on April 7th, 2021. (We had the chance to preview it and you do NOT want to miss it!) We talked about:Meet Jamie Lee, author, comedian, former bride-to-be, and host of the “The Wedding Coach”Jamie’s book: Weddiculous (a super-funny and must-read book for any couple, especially brides)How planning a wedding can feel super isolating (and why)Why the term “Bridezilla” is an insanely unfair label to place on anyoneHow every couple has SOMEONE who is just tough to deal with when wedding planningHer opinion on the most important aspects of a weddingSome incredibly candid advice to couples who are feeling a little lostSome of her favorite moments from the show and behind-the-scenes Li

We talked about:Alternative options if you don’t want to have dancing at your weddingWhat to do once all of your vendors are bookedDealing with family drama when you need to cut the guest list due to COVID restrictionsOur thoughts on venues that include EVERYTHING, like photography and DJ servicesWhether custom signage is worth itHow far in advance you should book your vendorsWays to incorporate your grandparents into your wedding dayHow to get your fiance “excited” about wedding planning 

We talked about:It’s ok to just daydream a bit and brainstorm before diving in head firstWhat to do if people start asking you a million questionsWhy priorities are important and the foundation of where to startThe dreaded B-word: BudgetBuilding your guest list and how it affects, like, everythingWhy a wedding planner should be one of your first stopsTips for choosing your venueAnd much more! 

We talked about:Why a wedding day goes by so fastWhy it’s important to make time for you as an individualStarting your day as close to your regular routine as possibleThe importance of FOOD on the wedding dayWhy it’s just as important to make time for you as a coupleFirst looks and why they might be the right thing for youWhere the tradition of not seeing one another the night of the wedding or before you walk down the aisle came fromThe post-ceremony “time out”Pros and cons of a Sweetheart Table (and what it even is)The BEST way to achieve what you want: PLAN FOR ITFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts.

We talked about:The obvious: Put them in your wedding partyUntraditional and non-gender specific wedding party rolesThe only rule when it comes to what “age” someone can be to be in your wedding partyWhat to do if you don’t want someone in your wedding partyCreative ways to involve family without making them part of your wedding partyCreating intentional moments on your wedding day to specifically include someoneWhat to do if you have kids yourself that you want to include on the wedding day (and should you include them)For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts.

We talked about:There’s no such thing as “the perfect marriage”, but the goal is a “healthy” marriageWhy we don’t necessarily agree with the common advice of “Don’t go to bed angry”What lawn care has to do with a good relationshipThe importance of love languages AND the languages of apologyThe reason why we have two ears and one mouthWhat’s more important: being kind or being right?“The River Jordan Concept”Creating a path back to one anotherThe idea of “50/50” Sex (Don’t worry, we’ll give you a heads up if you’ve got young ears listening in, but we kept it short and PG-13)The importance of communicationFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts.

We talked about:What step #1 should always be (even if the planning has already started)The five areas that really should involve BOTH partners in planningWhy “I’m good with whatever you want” doesn’t always flyThink the wedding registry needs to be all about dishes and bath towels? Think again.Ways to fill your partner’s love tank the morning of your weddingThe importance of showing gratitudeThe talk you should have about indulging in libationsTips for once the wedding is over

We talked about:Wedding favor alternativesIs it wrong to have a smaller ceremony now and a big celebration later on? (And how can you navigate that with minimal drama?)Honoring the death of someone close to you without it feeling a memorial for themA creative take on a wedding reception alternativeWhat to expect if you’re planning a NYE weddingWhether you “need” to have your siblings in your wedding party -- and what they can do instead to still feel specialFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts.

We talked about:The DPNAK Shop is now open! (Ringer Club members get a special discount!)Being realistic vs trying to be superhumanHow getting organized saves you time in the long run– which you need now more than everSome quick tips for getting organizedWhy it’s important to give yourself permission to not focus on all of the things at onceTake a break Long – you’ll be better for itDelegate – even if it’s hardDon’t forget to celebrate the little (and big) winsFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts.

We talked about:The DPNAK Shop is now open! (Ringer Club members get a special discount!)Tips on asking your vendors questionsWhere you snag more helpful questions to ask your vendorsSome of the best questions you can ask your DJ or Band before or after you’ve hired themWhy these questions are helpful to askWhat to consider based on their answersFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts.

Episode NotesWe talked about:Why Food Trucks might be a safe alternative in a COVID worldPros of having a food truck at your weddingSeven “important things to know” with solutions to common problems of having a food truck at your weddingA great resource for finding a wedding-friendly food truck in your areaAlternatives to consider to still achieve a unique “food truck” vibeFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts. 

We talked about:Where the word “Bridezilla” originated and why that mattersThere is a ton of pressure surrounding couples, brides in particular, to be “perfect” -- and that’s BULLYou’re allowed to make mistakes and not show up perfectly every timeWhat often leads to someone being called a “Bridezilla” and why that isn’t okWhy it’s time to remove the word from our vocabularyWhat someone can do instead of calling someone a “Bridezilla”For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts. 

We talked about:Our new “Ringer Club” membershipThe differences between an elopement, minimony, and microweddingWhy going small does NOT equal a less special or less “real” weddingThe first step in planning a small weddingWhy it’s still important to focus on the guest experienceYou’re still allowed to splurge on whatever you’d like The ONE vendor you should still have -- no matter what For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts. 

We talked about:What Dan and Danielle do in the wedding industryDanielle gives an update on her wedding planning with fiancé, MichaelDan loves on his wife, Rachel, their kiddos, and two cats (with names inspired by Harry Potter)Danielle shares her hometown, which you may be familiar withWhich Hogwarts house we’re both inWhat Danielle does and doesn’t drinkWhere this wedding planning podcast beganA fun fact about our MomsWho’s older vs. who’s tallerOur new Patreon membership tiersJoin us on Instagram @putaringonitpodcast For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts. 

We talked about:We stand in support of Black Lives MatterWhere we're currently at with re-opening here in PAWhat we've seen for the weddings we're currently working onWhat our predictions might be for the upcoming months (based on a TON of learning, but we still don't have full clarity just yet)What to consider if you're getting married in 2020Some tips if you're thinking about postponing your weddingWhat to do if you're getting married in 2021Ways to re-focus and reframe the planning process to find the JOY againFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts. 

We talked about:Ideas for kids activities at the receptionDealing with in-laws that don’t approve of your “vision”How to convince your partner to go with a higher-priced DJHow to plan an event where your cocktail hour and reception are all in the same spaceWhen to send out your invitations in a COVID worldOur take on microweddingsFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!