Mwf Motivation Podcast

In this episode, I chat about why it's not our job to make others love us. Instead, it's all about finding out who we really are, being that person authentically, and then magnetically attracting those who will love us just the way we are. Sounds liberating, right?We'll explore how our quest for acceptance can sometimes lead us astray, making us lose sight of our true selves. Remember those days when we tried so hard to fit in? Well, it's time to talk about it! From childhood pressures to societal norms, I'll share insights and personal experiences on how these influences can shape us and why it's so important to break free from them.I'm also super thrilled to share some practical tips on how to rediscover and embrace your true self. Expect discussions on building confidence, nurturing genuine relationships, and staying true to your own values and interests. It's all about being unapologetically YOU!Remember, it's not about changing for others; it's about being true to yourself and finding your tribe. Let's d

Ever felt that jittery butterfly storm in your belly when you're about to ask for something big? That's what we're tackling today. Whether it's in business, love, or just asking your neighbor if you can kick a soccer ball in their yard, rejection is a part of life.Here's the deal - we're all human, and that means sometimes getting a 'no'. I've been coaching for over 18 years, and if there's one thing I've learned, it's that our fear of 'no' can really hold us back. But why let it?In this episode, I'm peeling back the layers on why we fear rejection. Spoiler alert: It's not about survival anymore, like in our caveman days. It's about our craving for acceptance. But here's a little secret - sometimes, rejection can be the BEST thing that happens to us.We're going to explore how each 'no' can actually nudge us out of our comfort zones, helping us grow, learn, and become more resilient. Think of it as your personal growth rocket fuel!So, are you ready to flip the script on rejection? To turn those 'nos' into step

First up, I want to share a little secret with you: Everyone is doing their best! That's right, from the people who've challenged us to our loved ones, each person is navigating life with the tools they have. This episode will open your eyes to seeing others in a new light, understanding their journeys, and why they are the way they are.Next, we're going to explore a fascinating idea: all adults are just 'wounded children in adult bodies'. Sounds intriguing, right? We'll discuss how our past shapes us and how recognizing this in others can bring so much empathy and understanding to our interactions.I'm also super excited to talk about the power of compassion over judgment. We often forget the unseen battles others face, and in this episode, I share insights on how shifting to a compassionate mindset can revolutionally change our relationships.And here's a big one – the power lies in YOUR hands. I'll be diving into how we can take control of our reactions and emotions. Remember, no one can make you feel a cert

I've got five key tips that I personally find incredibly helpful:1. Speak Up Sooner Rather Than Later: You know that feeling when something bugs you and just won't let go? I'm talking about addressing it head-on within 48 hours. It's all about not letting things simmer under the surface.2. Embrace Your Emotions: Let's get real with our feelings - all of them. Whether it's joy, anger, or sadness, it's all part of being wonderfully human. I'll be sharing ways to express these emotions healthily - no bottling up!3. It's Okay to Ask for Help: We all need a helping hand sometimes. I'm going to get into why it's crucial to reach out when things get heavy. Remember, we're in this together!4. Self-Care is Key: Treat yourself like someone you love because, well, you should! I'll be touching on why self-care isn't selfish, but essential.5. Face Pain, Don't Avoid It: Lastly, we're going to talk about confronting pain and stress head-on. No more numbing or ignoring - it's time to heal and move forward.Can't wait to dive

You're perfect just the way you are. I know life can be tough – we all have our share of ups and downs, heartbreaks, and challenges. But here's the thing: these experiences don't define you.We talk about all sorts of trauma, big and small. Whether it's the heavy stuff like abuse or neglect, or subtler forms like emotional neglect from a busy parent, it's all significant. I want to remind you that feeling incomplete or unworthy because of these experiences is a common struggle, but it's not the end of your story.This episode is all about empowering you to overcome these feelings. We'll explore ways to deal with trauma, from talking about it to rewriting your personal story. It's about learning, growing, forgiving (both others and yourself), and building a new, empowered identity.Remember, your past experiences don't make you broken. They're part of your journey, and they can be the foundation for building a stronger, more resilient you. You are perfect as you are, and I'm here to support you on this journey of

In this episode, we're shaking things up a bit. Instead of the usual pep talks, I'm going to share why I believe motivation isn't the key to creating the life you dream of. You heard that right - it's time to shift our focus from fleeting motivation to something far more powerful: consistency. I'll be unpacking why consistency beats motivation every single time, using real-life anecdotes, psychological insights, and some personal stories from my journey and those of my clients. We'll explore how consistency isn't just a habit but a character trait that you can develop and strengthen over time.Plus, I've got some practical tips to help you move from being motivation-dependent to becoming a master of consistency. And guess what? You might just find that once you start taking action, motivation follows!So, if you're ready to transform the way you approach your goals and learn how to win at life through consistent action, this episode is for you. Tune in, get inspired, and remember: It's not about waiting for mot

Did you know that about 85% of the things we worry about never actually happen? And of the 15% that do happen, they rarely turn out as bad as we think. Mind-blowing, right?

Today we're diving into something that affects all of us, but we rarely talk about it - the sneaky happiness thief, social comparison!

In today's episode, we're diving into something really close to my heart - how to not just survive, but THRIVE through life's tough times. We all know life can be a rollercoaster - sometimes it's blissfully beautiful, and other times, let's be honest, it feels like we're trudging through mud. But here's the thing, every single challenge is a hidden gift waiting to be unwrapped.Remember those days when everything seemed to be going wrong, and we felt like victims of circumstance? Well, we're flipping the script! It's all about transforming that mindset from "Why is this happening to me?" to "What can I learn from this?" Trust me, it's a game-changer.We'll explore how asking the right questions can completely shift our perspective and lead to profound growth. It's like turning on a light in a dark room - suddenly, everything makes sense.And finally, we'll talk about how to take those hard-earned lessons and weave them into the fabric of our daily lives. It's all about aligning our actions with our learnings to

"Doing the Thing." It's all about the magic that happens when we stop just planning and start taking action to create the life we dream of.Have you ever caught yourself spending more time researching running shoes than actually running? Or planning your work so meticulously that you forget to get down to business? Well, you're not alone! In this episode, we explore why it's so easy to get caught up in the preparation and miss out on the actual doing.I'll share insights from my experiences with thousands of business owners and why a staggering 65% of businesses struggle in their first 10 years. Spoiler alert: It's all about the mindset!But don't worry, I won't leave you hanging with just the problems. We'll talk about how to differentiate between being busy and being productive, and I'll give you some real talk on how to focus on what really moves the needle in your life.And for those of you looking to level up even more, check out my book "Level Up" - it's your guide to getting focused, stopping procrastinati

Did you know that this fear is more than just a surface-level concern? It’s deeply rooted in our evolutionary past and our childhood experiences. We’ll explore how this fear, which once was crucial for our survival in tribal societies, now plays a role in our subconscious thoughts about self-love and acceptance. Mind-blowing stuff, I promise!But wait, there's more! We’ll also chat about how our fear of rejection is actually a cry for acceptance – not just from those around us but from ourselves. It's all about rediscovering and embracing who we truly are, beyond the layers of conditioning we’ve picked up along the way.I’ll share insights and personal anecdotes (yes, even those embarrassing ones!) to help us all understand why we sometimes feel this way and, more importantly, how we can start loving and accepting ourselves just as we are. 

In this episode, we're diving into something really special - the top 9 things you can do to skyrocket your success!1. Rise and Shine Early: Ever wondered how achievers like Richard Branson start their day? We're talking about the magic of waking up early to create time for yourself before the world rushes in. It's all about being proactive, not reactive.2. Become a Bookworm: Reading is not just for passing time; it's a success habit! Join me as we explore how reading regularly can transform your life and why successful CEOs are always buried in books.

In this episode, we explore how saying 'yes' to something means saying 'no' to something else. Ever chosen a Netflix binge over a morning workout?  We've all been there, and it's these decisions that shape our lives.But here's the kicker: we often get bogged down thinking about the negatives. Starting a business? That can be scary! Adopting a healthier lifestyle? It's not always easy! But what about the amazing outcomes that can come from these choices?This episode is all about shifting our focus. Let's start thinking about the incredible positives that come from chasing our dreams and making those tough choices. Yes, it's hard work. Yes, it's stepping out of our comfort zone. But the rewards? Totally worth it.So, if you're ready to look at life's challenges in a new light and embrace the consequences of your actions (both good and bad), this episode is for you. Let's journey together towards building the life we've always wanted! 

In today's episode we're getting crystal clear about what you truly want in life.We're going to explore why knowing exactly what you want is the first step to achieving your dreams. Trust me, it's more than just wanting more money or a fancy house. It's about the deep, meaningful stuff that makes you leap out of bed in the morning!Action is Key: I'll be sharing tips on how to turn your dreams into actions. Because let's face it, dreams are great, but they only become reality when we start moving towards them.We'll talk about how to shake off the limitations set by others and find your own path. Remember, your life is about your dreams, not what someone else thinks you should be doing.I'm a big believer in self-reflection. I'll guide you through some simple ways to get in touch with your inner desires. Maybe grab a pen and paper – you'll want to jot these down!And of course, we're going to chat about the magic that happens when you align with your passions. It's not just about success; it's about happiness too

In this episode, we dive into the essence of self-improvement. But hey, let's get something straight - I'm not talking about chasing the impossible dream of perfection. Nope! We're focusing on being impeccable with our efforts, not perfect. Because let's face it, perfection is a myth that can often hold us back.

In this episode, we're going to explore how our beliefs, whether they're about ourselves, politics, religion, or even our favorite sports teams, often stem from thoughts we've repeated so much that they feel like solid truths. But here's a fun fact: just because we believe something, doesn't make it an absolute fact. Mind-blowing, right?We'll also chat about why our brains aren't big fans of inconsistency and how this leads us to resist ideas that clash with our beliefs. Ever found yourself rationalizing or trivializing something just to keep your belief boat from rocking? We've all been there, and I'll share why that happens!Plus, we'll get into the nitty-gritty of cognitive dissonance and how our beliefs tie into our identity. It's fascinating how we can align ourselves so strongly with a political party, religion, or even a sports team, and how challenging these beliefs can feel like shaking the very ground we stand on.And remember, nothing changes if we don't change. Let's do this! 

Are you ready for a change? Want to see massive shifts in your world? You're in the right place! We're going to explore how personal transformation is key to achieving those breakthroughs we all crave. Think of it like a seed transforming into a beautiful flower – that's you evolving into your best self!I know, change can be scary. We often resist it, but guess what? That's completely normal! We'll chat about how breaking down old parts of ourselves can lead to incredible growth and new beginnings. It's like a forest after a wildfire – fresh, new, and full of potential!In this episode, we're getting real about the psychological barriers we face when it comes to change. But don't worry, I'm here to guide you through it. We'll discuss how embracing change is vital for our growth, and how our subconscious might try to hold us back – but we won't let it!Remember, self-development is a journey, not a destination. We're constantly evolving, and that's the beauty of it! I'll share some personal stories and insights

In today's episode, we're diving into the world of confidence – and guess what? It's not something you're just born with; it's something you build!Here's a sneak peek of what we'll explore together:Action Stations: We're talking about how taking action is the cornerstone of building confidence. Whether it's a success or a learning curve (let's not call it a failure), every step counts!Visualize Victory: I'll share some personal stories about how visualizing your goals can turn nervous jitters into rock-solid confidence.Talk the Talk: Ever heard of affirmations? Well, it's all about how you talk to yourself. I'll guide you on how to shift your internal dialogue to a cheerleader instead of a critic.Failing Forward: Embrace those oops moments! I'll explain why every stumble is actually a step forward in your confidence journey.Comfort Zone? What's That?: We'll explore why stepping just a bit outside of what feels safe can be incredibly empowering and confidence-boosting.Join me in this journey as we unlock the s

Today, we return for our second chat with Licensed Therapist Haesue Jo, and let me tell you, it's a game-changer.We're diving into those pesky fears and doubts that like to hang out in our heads. Ever felt like you're at war with yourself? One side dreaming big and the other scared stiff? We've all been there, and in this episode, we’re tackling that head-on!But wait, there's more! We're also talking about the superpower of self-awareness. Ever wonder why you do the things you do? We're uncovering the secrets behind our habits and behaviors, and some of it might just trace back to your past. Mind-blowing, right?And of course, we couldn’t skip talking about trauma – both the big and small kinds. It's a heavy topic, but oh-so-important. We're exploring how to recognize it, understand it, and most importantly, work through it. It’s a journey, and we’re here to guide you through it.Lastly, we're busting the myth that therapy is only for people with big problems. Spoiler alert: It's for everyone! Think of it as a