The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-positive Quest For Love

Feminist pornographer Sophie Delancey proves that blowjobs can be empowering and fun! Billy chats with special guest Sophie, Vice President of The Art Of Blowjob. This Canadian describes what running a small porn company entails and what made her ditch her dreams of singing opera for working in the adult entertainment industry. Plus, she explains why feminism and porn can go hand in hand! Billy discusses the depressing state of sex education in America's schools. Because of the lack of sex ed in public schools, young adults are learning all about sex from porn. Hear the pros and cons of this on The Manwhore Podcast! For a full breakdown of paltry sex ed requirements, check out the Guttmacher Institute State Policies brief. Sophie Delancey hasn't only produced porn. She discussed what it was like giving tender, loving blowjobs on-camera. Sophie also describes what it's like dating someone while working in porn. She is also a pretty kinky girl. Hear about how this kinky feminist straps it on to take the d

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy Procida is joined in the studio/his apartment by comedians Jessica Michelle Singleton and Natasha Pearl Hansen. He has not made out with either of them (yet? ever?) but they are hilarious women in town for New York City's She-Devil Comedy Festival. The three comics chat about gender and comedy. These gals implicitly answer the age-old question: Can women be funny? The answer is: DUH! Jessica recalls her experiences dating comedians and why slut-shaming stigma causes her to turn down certain road gigs. Natasha gives her perspective on dating while making comedy the priority. Billy just wants someone to love him, comedian or not! Do women need their own comedy festival? Is the industry ready for funny females? Can the Tina Feys one day outweigh the Kim Kardashians of our pop culture? Christ, we hope so. The three analyze the pros and cons of 'affirmative action' comedy booking. Billy was on the Lust for Life podcast with comedian James

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Mistress Jay returns for a body positivity episode! Jay and Billy discuss their struggles with body image and self-love. Plus, Jay shares about her experience participating in a talk show's on-air weight loss challenge. Come on, Hollywood. Ya can't let a girl keep a $20 scale?! Online dating: what do you put down for body type? Is it better to be comfortable with your choice or for your selection to be accurate for those browsing? Jay and Billy battle over the word 'curvy'. They also chat about fat-shaming and when being morbidly obese becomes unhealthy. This week's episode is actually sponsored by Hot Octopuss. Buy a PULSE for yourself or a man in your life with the promo code Whore20 for 20% off your purchase. www.HotOctopuss.com Join Billy at What The Float on Nov. 1. Get your tickets now before they go up. Just $10. www.whattheflo.at So many wonderful things to share with you. For more on body image, body positivity, weight and

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Cate and Billy hooked up back in their early days of comedy. Cate returns to discuss her past boyfriends, the good and the ugly. If you want to break up with someone near their birthday, do you wait until before or after? Cate's ex-boyfriend said he was polyamorous. In reality, he was just an assh*le. Plus, Billy redefines her definition of 'slut'. Do you pay for porn? You should! Porn star Siri from #TeamBJ wrote a fantastic article for The Kernel about the drastic effects watching stolen porn has on the adult entertainment industry. Fight porn piracy…and pay for your damn porn. Check out the article here! Follow Siri on Twitter: @SIRIpornstar. Join the Manwhore at the last dance float of the year. Check out What The Float's website for details. Cate looks like she works in a sex toy shop. Billy is giving away a free secret awesome sex toy for men and couples from his sponsor. Just tweet this link to the show on Twitter and use the hashta

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy drops by Christina's art studio to reminisce on old times. The two met through Craigslist, but not the casual encounters section. Christina recruited Billy from Craigslist for an unsusual art project that took an interesting turn. Billy and Christina ponder their singledom as they discuss online dating, scandalous affairs and sexting. Fellas: quit it with the dick pix! Sex is a fun thing to do in a bedroom…or backyard, back of a taxi cab or bar bathroom. Public sex can be both fun and risky (which is part of the fun!). When was the last time you took a risk? Plus, Billy laments about his fantasy football woes. Support Slut: A Documentary Film by buying a "Define 'Slut'" t-shirt and combat sexual bullying and slut-shaming. Follow @unslutproject on Twitter for updates on Emily Lindin's noteworthy project. This week's episode is sponsored by sporks. Sporks: for the trendy hipster. Email your questions and comments to manwhorepod@g

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Polyamorous person Leon Feingold guests on a very special episode of The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love. Billy and Leon discuss the ethics of polyamory and responsible nonomonogamy. He is also the co-founder of Open Love NY, a poly group in New York. Check them on their website for info on poly meet-ups! Leon's polyamorous. His girlfriend is monogamous. SITCOM! Hear how their relationship lasts with different dating needs. Billy seeks advice about potentially dating outside of the poly pool. Plus: the difference between polyamory, swinging, open relationships and Republicans. Polyamory is all about the love. But sex is pretty cool, too! Leon describes putting together New York's first poly building! This week's episode is sponsored by the word "compersion" because it's freaking adorable. Follow Open Love NY on Twitter: @OpenLoveNY. Submit your poly questions to Poly Wanna Answer. Email your comments or questions

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's guest is fashionista designer gal Jenna. Billy and Jenna went on an apparently one-sided horror date that caused Billy to receive a spite blowjob. It's important for a woman to have self-esteem but Jenna could use just a little bit of humility. Or Billy's just a giant jerk. Jenna has given up on online dating and most dating in general. She's sadly not met a guy of quality yet. Plus, it's pretty hard having sex at home when you're living with your parents. You should join Billy at What The Float! on Saturday, Sept. 27! Don't get fancy; just get dancy! Come dance your face off around the streets of New York City. For info, go to www.whattheflo.at. This week's episode is sponsored by sun tan lotion, because it deserves one last shout out before we wont' need it for 7 months. Email your comments or questions to [email protected]. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Sketch comedy writer Lisa Vikingstad reunites with Billy to bring closure to a short, but intense, courtship between two comedians. Lisa talks about her rule for dating comedians. I mean, it can't be worse than that time she accidentally dated a gay boy in high school. Craigslist: it's not just for murderers and rapists anymore! Plus, Lisa teaches the listeners an adorably verbose game to play with your linguistic lover. Billy opens up about his gambling addiction. His addiction was a primary dealbreaker to this potential relationship the first time around. Gambling is an addiction not taken as seriously as drugs or alcohol. So the question is raised: can you date an addict? This week's episode is sponsored by loud air conditioning units because soon they'll be packed up and tucked into the closet. Check out Lisa's blog: Making Better Bad Decisions. You can also see her sketch team perform every month at The People's Improv Theatre in New

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy joins porn star Sara Jay! This adult entertainment veteran chats about sexual health, the porn industry and body positivity. Sara Jay is a business savvy adult performer who produces, directs & stars in her own videos for her members-only website and loves her job! Billy was just in Las Vegas to participate in #TeamBJ. Thanks to Germany's World Cup win, Sara Jay and fellow porn star Siri serviced their Twitter followers and your favorite manwhore took advantage of the free BJ. Porn star sex and real world sex aren't always the same. But for Sara Jay group sex and ass worship are fun both on- and off-camera! Plus, she explains why monogamy may not be a fit for her. Want to win a free one-month membership to Sara Jay's members-only website? Tweet a link to the show with the hashtag #ManwhorePodcast by 9/16 and I'll select a lucky person to enjoy a free month of premium porn! This week's show is sponsored by fedoras. Fedoras: they'll ma

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy reunites with Allie for a fantastic trip down drunken memory lane. Apparently, Billy is Escalade Guy! Allie recounts how they were caught in the back of a black Escalade by her then-girlfriend. Oops. Billy was marked with the Scarlet A with a neck full of hickies because, karma. Allie admits to some infidelity in her past. Billy just went on a first date with a woman who admits to cheating on many of her past boyfriends. Would you date a cheater? Have you cheated? Email the show and tell us what you think! Allie has caught the love bug. The two brainstorm how she can drop the L-bomb on her younger boy toy. My first recommendation? Don't have important talks via texting. Because we're freaking adults. Plus, Allie drives a fork lift at work. Who wouldn't fall in love with a woman like that?! This week's episode is brought to you by Republicans, because they're the best at screwing people (over). Email your comments and questions for the sh

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida NYU friend Sarah joins Billy to get the low down on dirty talking vs. "nice talking". The two chat about the various online dating services Sarah won't be joining: Tinder, JDate, JSwipe. She's simply content on bar hook-ups. Billy goes on a rape rant. Oops. Idiot Standford student Chris Herries compares a woman's vagina to a bike in the latest public victim shaming comments. I doubt he knows how to ride a "bike" very well. Plus, Billy updates listeners on his love life. Do you always use condoms? How often do you slip up? Billy tries to understand what causes Sarah to be undisciplined when it comes to safe sex. Why not ensure your own safer sex with a free Manwhore Podcast condom?! Are you a squirter? Sarah wants to know. Just make sure you lay down a towel. This week's episode is sponsored by the NFL: where you can beat your wife so long as you're not high on marijuana when you do it. Email your questions or comments to manwhorepod@gmail

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Kat is a Tantra practitioner, Burning Man participant and polyamorous lover. Basically, she's freaking fantastical. Kat and Billy chatted about how she came to accept the title of sex worker and how she came out to her parents about how she makes a living. Plus some crunchy hippy existential chatter about Mother Goddess and oneness. Cool stuff! I am Buddha Steakhouse! Hear me roar! Kat, codename Candy Lion, tells us about Burning Man and how she got her burner name. Mine? Buddha Steakhouse. How much body hair do you like on a woman? Can women with hairy armpits be sexy? Chime in! Kat feels sexiest with smooth legs, full pits and a little downstairs trim. The burner also shares her favorite uses for period blood. Wait, what?! Yea. Listen. Dig it. And check me out on Keith and The Girl This week's episode is sponsored by flip-flops. Flip-flops: At least we're not Crocs. Email your questions or comments to [email protected] www.ManwhoreP

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's theme song should be, "I (Kinda) Kissed A Boy (And I Liked It!)" Sasha is Billy's first gender queer guest on The Manwhore Podcast. Sometimes she's a girl. Sometime's he's a boy. Sometime's they are everything! The two discuss gender roles and labels as well as Sasha's journey of sexual and identity self-discovery. Billy might have tried to flirt with her. Oops. The sex party was fun. Next question, please. Sasha's father used to run a Russian mail order bride service. What?! Yes. We learn that "looking for a wife is like shopping for a car." Gross, but fascinating! Plus, Billy tires his hand at singing the popluar love ballad, "Lola." Jim Norton wrote a great op-ed piece for Time Magazine titled, "In Defense of Johns." Check it out! Get your very own Manwhore Podcast condom! Make sure you're subscribed to The Manwhore Podcast and then take a screenshot of yourself writing a review on iTunes (postiive or negative). Email the sc

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's guest is group sex guru Jefferson. Jefferson is a sex educator, sex blogger, storyteller and organizer of New York City's Bukkake Social Club (it's like bridge, but with more semen). We talk about blowjobs, threesomes & orgies. He also gives Billy some tips before he goes to his first sex party this weekend!  Jefferson discusses what type of women want to be on the receiving end of a bukkake and how he juggles the consent of each individual person at an event. All while trying to maintain his erection!  Check out this awesome IndieGogo campaign for the pd.ID. The personal drink identifier detects if your drink has been drugged. These Canadians are trying to raise $100,000 to make this invention a reality and you should really support it. A $75 donation will land you your own early version of the product.  Check out Jefferson's live storytelling show series, Bare, in New York City, Philadelphia, Washington D.C. and more at barest

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy and Michelle record directly after completing a RandomActOfMuffdive. What is that? Go check out /r/RandomActsOfMuffdive for yourself! The two chat about the finer points of cunnilingus and Michelle gives Billy a live review of his performance! Plus, our guest shares some suggestions to the fellas out there wondering how they can better please their lady friends while going downtown. Hey frat boys: no more fingerblasting. Stop it! And stop trying to go in girls' butts without asking first. This isn't a porno. Billy wrote a very personal piece on xoJane.com about his struggles his body dysmorphia and disordered eating. "Guys may self-deprecate. We may not like our bodies as is. But we don't do eating disorders." Check out the article. This week's episode is sponsored by physical therapy, for those times you throw your shoulder out trying that crazy new sex position. Email your questions or comments to [email protected].

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Elexa's boyfriend of 8 years refused to have sex with her. Listen to why she thinks he couldn't give a lady what she wanted. It might be why she's struggled to claim that elusive female orgasm. My good friend Elexa got real, telling me why our brief dating history was as brief as it was. "I remember wanting to punch you in the face." Hear why she decided we'd "just be friends." Billy gets an opportunity to give her advice as well. What's proper long distance texting etiquette…if you're not a couple yet? Ever buy a dildo but it just didn't feel right? Now you can make your own customized 3D-printed dildo. Check it out at www.dildo-generator.com. Billy gives the low-down on buying jeans with a man-booty and curvy hips. This week's show is brought to you by bed sheets. Bed sheets: Wash them when you feel like it or when you can't get away with it anymore. Email your comments and questions to [email protected]. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Lee admits that Billy would be a great boyfriend, just not her boyfriend. She presses Billy about his polyamorous proclivities. But emotions can be toxic. Billy's feelings towards Lee caused a great Friends With Benefits situation to end. He was a little crazy lovesick. This Aussie native doesn't apologize for breaking his heart but she does apologize for giving bad blowjobs. Lee has vaginismus. Learn about this frustrating condition that kept her from having sex for years! Plus, we hear about Blendr. Never heard of it? Yea, that sounds about right. If you want to date Billy, you need to watch Chasing Amy. You also need to be able to handle his various faults, which he and Lee go over in detail. Have you read The Ethical Slut yet? Press pause. Go get it. Live a better life. This week's episode is brought to you by Starbucks, because they let me edit the show inside while it was raining without buying anything. Email your questions and com

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This is a special episode of The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love. Billy interviews "Sherry", a legal prostitute in Amsterdam's historic Red Light District. They talk about the pros and cons of sex work. Sherry tells us about dating as a hooker and how working girls need love, too! Plus, she dishes about a few kinky clients! Billy went to a nude beach with a couple of friends and it didn't get weird. Seeing your friend's boobs makes for a fun weekend. Do you think prostitution should be legalized in the United States? Why or why not? Have you ever had sex for money? Chime in. For more information on sex work in the Netherlands, visit Advocacy Group for sex workers in the Netherlands or Sex Work Information Centre websites. Email your questions or comments for the show to [email protected]. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Elle is a fellow NYU Fighting Violet who loves public sex and dating the older crowd. But recently, she's found herself on OkCupid exploring her bi-curious side looking for a lady to hook up with. This hottie sits down on The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love to trade sex stories and give young men pointers. Elle is in love with "Sergio" in Argentina. Buenos Aires steals yet another young American heart with a study abroad 'roadmance'. Billy recalls learning about Magnum condoms from Degrassi: The Next Generation from a CougarLife.com date. The Supreme Court ruled in favor of Hobby Lobby. Meanwhile, Americans still aren't quite sure what the store sells besides whackjob religious "beliefs". And thanks to the cranky men up on the hill, there's no better time to protest an abortion clinic than the present! That's legal now, too. How'd you lose your virginity? Elle's probably got ya beat! This week's episode of The Manwhore Podc

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Billy and Amanda get emotional and playful on this week's show. Amanda has been experimenting with casual sex, sleeping with men in hopes they will like her. She also continues to sleep with her ex-boyfriend (who Billy thinks is a total assh*le). If you still go out with your ex after breaking up, aren't you still "dating your ex"? Billy went to Coney Island's Mermaid Parade this past weekend. Slap the pasties on and let your freak flag fly! He saw quite a few pairs of boobies and phenomenally-costumed drag queens. Keep Brooklyn weird! Amanda expresses her love of playing with buttholes. Billy shows her something that blows her mind! Please don't drink and drive, sluts. Who would you marry from Orange Is The New Black? Boy Meets World? Amand and Billy debate. Plus a fun round of Cast That Porn! This week's episode is sponsored by air mattresses. An air mattress is a perfect chastity device for those who can't afford World of Warcraft. Em