The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-positive Quest For Love

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Dating guru Hayley Quinn is one of Britain's top dating coaches. The former pick-up artist expert talks about rediscovering what love means on this week's Manwhore Podcast! From PUAs to break-ups to awkward first kisses, this episode will surely resonate with anyone who struggles to find love. As I've been learning recently, you need look no further than a mirror! Hayley Quinn is, as I describe her, a "former British pick-up coach who grew a conscience." She spent the better part of the last decade helping men master the "art form" of the pick-up game. She has since moved away from the typical PUA philosophy of obtaining sex and now focuses on emotional self-improvement. She now coaches both men and women on how to make better connections. Hayley and I both grew up a tad awkward, so it's almost surprising that we're both confident, attractive people helping others examine sex and dating. We share our awkward first kiss stories and Hayley sha

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Brett Druck is a fellow single New York comedian and all-around nice guy. The Laughs comedian came by The Manwhore Podcast to talk about a bevy of topics including butt stuff, doggy style, and the state of modern dating. Also, Belgian waffles is my new favorite sex position! Brett Druck was a hit at the speed dating podcast. One girl told me, "If I was going to see anyone again, it would have been Brett." That's because he shares my crazy dating philosophy of treating women like people. But the current state of dating depresses him. He discusses the fake online dating profile he made of a serial killer trying to date—and the woman who was totally into it! "I love butt cheeks—I don't like the hole." Brett has several opinions on all things anal. Do women who like anal sex just have Stockholm Syndrome? How many fingers are you allowed to stick up Brett's ass? Also, Brett opines, "We need to rename doggy style." Hear our recommendation! Brett

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Short show notes this week—I have a hot date tonight! Over four years later, I reconnect with Holly the Hottie! Wow! Can't wait to dive back into some old memories. Plus I dish on my ladies Smitten A and Smitten B! Holly is going to a wedding this weekend and I find myself fascinated with the phenomenon that is wedding sex. It seems to be a guaranteed to get laid. We also discuss her fake tits and what it was like to wake up from breast enhancement surgery. A listener emails me about her idol, Canadian porn queen Samantha Mack! Go look her up on Pornhub and Twitter/Instagram @thesamanthamack. She's got some big ol' titties! Join our community on Reddit at /r/manwhorepodcast! Support me by donating to The Manwhore Podcast! Make your pledge today by visiting my Patreon page! This week's episode is (actually) sponsored by Adam & Eve. Get 10 FREE gifts, including FREE SHIPPING, by using the code "MANWHORE" at check out! Visit AdamAndEve.com! 

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Here's a tip for sleeping with older women: don't call them "older women." Whitney reminds me how what a young Billy saw as a novelty was just immature and annoying. We talk about strip clubs, marriage, and Whitney's unfortunate dry spell. Plus, I share a lot of fee-fees regarding my weekend. Another great episode in the books! (there are no books, this is the Internet) Flashing for beads during Mardi Gras makes so much sense to me. Everyone staring at you for the sole purpose of objectifying your body? Ah! A dream (for me). Being the attention whore that I am, it's no surprise I tried to get my own beads. But I don't think I wanted the beads—I think I just wanted old women in balconies to tell me to whip out my dick! Of course, I indulged. Whitney took me to my first strip club and bought me my first lap dance. This was the night when I realized that strip clubs are not my thing! This week's episode has #AllTheFeels! I had a wonderful weeke

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida The rise and fall of a relationship is the focus of this week's Manwhore Podcast. In this 100th episode, Boobs of Bushwick curator Kate Chiplinsky sits down with her ex Michael. Kate a.k.a. "Chip" is a brassy Australian who couldn't keep a filter on if you welded it to her face. Mike is much more mellow. The combination makes for a very interesting format change in a super special Manwhore Podcast! Kate "Chip" Chiplinsky and Mike's relationship was based on a lot of sex, drugs, and rock & roll. And not much else. When the molly wears off, you realize you're still next to this person who totally turns you off. Meanwhile, Chip recounts her times as a mess of a human being and how she tried to turn that around. Cheating is usually the event that causes a break-up, but this relationship was doomed either way. I am in shock and awe that we are celebrating (yes, we are celebrating!) the 100th episode of The Manwhore Podcast. You fanwhores mean so

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Do I sound gay? Gay and straight men alike (and those totally visible bi guys inbetween) have asked themselves this for decades. It is typically a shameful question most frequently queried inside our own heads. Filmmaker David Thorpe made a documentary, Do I Sound Gay?, to explore the stereotypically gay "accent" and the shame that surrounds it. This episode puts the 'th' in 'fabulous'—and doesn't give a rat's ass who hearsth it! David Thorpe's documentary Do I Sound Gay?, featuring Dan Savage, Don Lemon, and David Sedaris, is now streaming on Netflix. After a bad break-up, Thorpe became self-conscious (again) about his effeminate gay voice. He visits prominent gay celebrities, speech therapists, and old friends to explore why homosexuals typically talk like this and the shame that surrounds such an innate part of a human being—their voice. Also, we talk about dating difficulties and how worry is wasted on the youth. Bullying is a problem so

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida TotalFratMove.com's Jared Freid tells Manwhore Podcast listeners to "be the Captain." Freid, also known as JTrain, talks about hooking up, dating apps, and confidence on this week's total dudecast. This episode has some stellar advice for all unsure daters. Get in here and listen! Jared Freid is a very funny stand-up comedian who fields sex and dating questions on his very own podcast, The JTrain Podcast! This dude's dude has some excellent words of wisdom for frustrated folks on the dating scene. One of my favorites? "Be okay with a no," he tells people whose happiness is too tied to the outcome. We also talk about the tug o' war between women and comedy. How early is too early to ask for butt stuff? I recount a recent post-date blowjob that seemed to dangle the promise of prostate play in the air. I caught myself wondering if communicating this desire was time-appropriate. If I wasn't so smitten, it'd be a no-brainer. Jared and I both gre

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida My friend Lilly stopped by The Manwhore Podcast to debrief another successful sex party weekend. For all the lovers of sexy stories, this is the episode for you. Hear how one of my Manwhore Podcast condoms got more action than I did one night! Ever have a dude f*ck up your blowjob? Not only do you need consent to touch another person, but I think you should have consent from the person the other person is touching. What do I mean? Listen in! Plus, am I into sex parties for the exhibitionism or for the accessibility to titties? I've never used one of the Manwhore Podcast condoms but I did watch one get used. Lilly and I team up to recount a wild night at the Creek and the Cave after a comedy show. Apparently she was black out drunk so she's just as surprised by most of this story as you are. She also talks about her history with BDSM and foray into being a professional dominatrix. Go be a part of the conversation! Subscribe to /r/manwhorepod

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Speed dating is alive and well! This week I went speed dating on the podcast thanks to OnSpeedDating.com. To make things interesting, I invited back Andrea Allan to critique my dates. This is a one-of-a-kind Manwhore Podcast! As a twentysomething millenial, the term "speed dating" still conjures up that scene from The 40-Year-Old-Virgin. I threw a speed dating event to meet eight single New Yorkers. I discovered the best way to make multiple five-minute dates even more awkward: shove a microphone in their face and broadcast it on the Internet! There was a solid mix of good and bad dates. Now you can hear what a nervous Billy Procida sounds like when he has to impress someone in five minutes or less! I was on some podcasts recently. You should check them out! Keith and the Girl: Ep. 2315 - 47-Hour Marathon: Piss Play The Movie Preview Review Podcast: Ep. 182 Comedian Andrea Allan stopped by to sit down and critique my speed dates. My bitter

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's Manwhore Podcast is with the fantastic Effy Blue! Effy is an alternative relationships coach here in New York City. She and I agree that each relationship should be customized for the people in that relationship. Excellent episode if you're interested in opening your relationship or learning about nonmonogamous lifestyles! "I'm not here to recruit you—I'm just here to help!" Not much butt stuff on this one, but you'll get by! Effy Blue is a "life coach specializing in unconventional relationships." Got #PolyProblems? Call Effy. Threeway miscommunication? Call Effy. Metamour stole your credit cards? Call the cops. Then Effy. We discuss the various relationship models floating out there, from polyamory to monogamy. She also shares her origin story of a failed monagamist-turned-poly person! Look, we all thought Gwyneth Paltrow's "Conscious Uncoupling" fiasco was kinda silly. But Effy thinks they may have been on to something! Ou

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida It turns out you can teach an old dog new tricks! Comedian Angela Cobb is the guest on this week's Manwhore Podcast. Angela lost her virginity later in life at the ripe age of 25. She takes us through how she came to be a late bloomer, how it effected her self-image, and the windy circumstances surrounding her deflowering! Angela Cobb has always been a John Lennon-loving tomboy. Growing up in an inescapable friend zone led her to remain a virgin well past college. Then Hurricane Sandy hit and her life—and lady parts—were forever changed! There's nothing wrong with being a late bloomer. Sex is something that should be done on your own terms. Angela doesn't like the phrases that imply virginity being taken or lost. "It's something you give to someone," she shares. PLEASE TAKE THE LISTENER FEEDBACK SURVEY BY FEB. 1! Period sex shouldn't be that big of a deal, especially with a repeat partner with whom you're comfortable. But it takes a differe

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida I connect with long ago lover Helen on this week's Manwhore Podcast. She's already married, with a house, and trying to make a baby. I'm single, with a podcast, and trying to lose 20 pounds. I wonder if she'd be kicking this much ass had we ended up together. Probably not. Helen is a married woman these days after years serial monogamy. Marriage comes with all sorts of struggles. Wise beyond her years, she knows that honest communication is the bedrock of a healthy marriage. I'm sure her husband appreciates the lack of passive aggressiveness. Also, what do you do when your husband gets queezy about LGBTQ folks? A San Diego escort emails asking about her security measures. She's wor Please take my Listener Feedback Survey! Support The Manwhore Podcast and receive great rewards. Donate today by visiting my Patreon page. This week's episode is sponsored by baby oil. Dick not shiny enough? Use some baby oil. Email your comments, questions an

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida TAKE THE LISTENER FEEDBACK SURVEY RIGHT THIS SECOND! Check out the latest from Tina Horn, We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival The Tina Horn is in Brooklyn to tell Billy what's what. This Manwhore Podcast covers everything from sex work, to politcal correctness, to vore. This badass author/sex worker/educator/podcaster engages in a fun, smart, and sexy conversation from the legendary Couch of Marginalization. This show's so hot it produced an additional bonus episode because we couldn't fit it all in one hour! Tina Horn hosts one of my new favorite podcasts, Why Are People Into That?. This episode gets two of iTunes's dopest sex podcasters in the same room to talk about intimacy and butt stuff. We both ponder the important question every sex podcaster asks him or herself: have I gotten laid from the podcast??? This week's show discusses the difference between romantic love and platonic love and how the fear of one can make sexual relation

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida PLEASE FILL OUT THIS SURVEY! YOU COULD WIN A $20 BABELAND GIFT CARD! I revisit some of the best, craziest, hottest, and worst sex stuff of 2015! In front of a live studio audience of 1, I hand out Craziest Craigslist Encounter, Best Tinder Bio, and Sex Trend of the Year! I talk about my trip up to Buffalo to watch my Jets take on the Bills, then the sad sad journey home after their unexpected loss. Also, word to the wise: take caution using baby oil to jerk off. You may be prescribed c*ck rest by your local almost-doctor. Donate to The Manwhore Podcast and receive great rewards. Make your pledge today by visiting my Patreon page! This week's episode is sponsored by f*ck bois. F*ck bois: they may not spell it right but they'll f*ck you right. Email your comments, questions and boobie pictures to [email protected]. www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Krystyna Hutchinson joins me for a special episode of The Manwhore Podcast! The Guys We F*cked co-host has seen monstrous success talking to her exes and hilarious comedians alongside her good friend Corinne Fisher. We couldn't fit more topics this week if we tried! From bisexual men to butt stuff to Bailey Jay's c*ck it's one super sexual episode! Get Krystyna and Corinne's book Fucked: Being Sexually Explorative and Self-Confident in a World That's Screwed Krystyna co-hosts a show that is the female yang to the Manwhore yin. You all know Guys We F*cked from either its endless amount of press or my appearance on their podcast last year. We discussed how podcasting about our sex lives has improved our bedroom practices. One of 2015's poster women for feminism also shares how talking to her boyfriend's porn star ex (Stoya) helped her overcome immense jealousy. I hope everyone enjoyed their Christmas or "generic Friday off work"! I spent my w

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida This week's guest Caroline is a Lover Without Borders. The new Manwhore Podcast is all about love and the different ways we experience it. "Any chance to fall in love expands your horizons," says my hippie dippie guest. But there's a dark side to this podcast: Caroline is guilty of chronic ghosting! Don't worry. I got over it. Check it out! We all know what ghosting is. Ghosting is a more abrupt fade away. It's rude to inexplicably cease all communication with someone immediately after an otherwise fun encounter. Sure, some guys don't take no for an answer. And some will. Do you really want to go through life assuming the worst of everyone? Caroline has many boyfriends but she is not about that poly life. She is for all intents and purposes nonmonogamous but doesn't enjoy acknowledging monogamy as a cultural norm (even though it is). We discuss her various partners and how relationships morph and change. She also walks us through a recent br

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Many people never realize their sexual fantasies because they don't know how to make them happen. My guest Liz took to Reddit to fulfill her fantasy of group sex. Using /r/RandomActsOfBlowjob, I organized a blowbang for this eager c*cksucker several months ago. Now she's on The Manwhore Podcast to explain why someone would ever want a bunch of dicks in their face! We also give some useful tips to men and women looking to post sexy personal ads, or answer one, online. Liz has explored her sexuality by having threesomes with couples, experimenting with BDSM kink and, now, trying group sex. I recruited a half-dozen men using Reddit's /r/RandomActsOfBlowjob subreddit and Craigslist to give this young lady all the dick she can handle. The Internet is filled with a bunch of creeps, true. But so is your local bar, frat house and office holiday party. If you put out the right energy online, there is a good chance you will receive an equally respectfu

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Lauren Urasek was the most popular woman on OKCupid in New York City. If it sounds exhausting that's because it kind of is! Lauren stopped by The Manwhore Podcast and talked about her online dating ventures, what she looks for in a man and her experience as a sugar baby! Even the most messaged woman on OKCupid is still single, so don't feel bad about your current relationship status. Lauren Urasek has been on a lot of awkward Internet dates and received even more ridiculous messages. Ultimately, none of the men from OKCupid had the right stuff for her. Lauren tells me about what she looks for in a man and how dating has changed since her newfound celebrity status. Creepy messages are never okay but always hilarious. Lauren's received so many that she started a Tumblr page where she could share her most entertaining ones. It's like having a personalized /r/CreepyPMs subreddit! Check out TheyReallySaidThat.com! I went to my sex party this wee

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Jane Ward just legitimized "No homo," the excuse for any masculine straight dude who wishes to cup his buddy's balls. Her new book Not Gay: Sex Between Straight White Men is a fascinating study of why heterosexual (white) men who have homosexual encounters don't identify as gay. Lost? Then let her explain it on a very homoerotic Manwhore Podcast! Whether it's in a frat house, a military barracks or a Hell's Angel club house, straight-identified white men are having homosexual experiences with other straight-identified men. Jane Ward discusses how their masculinity and whiteness allows opportunities to explore each other's bodies without endangering their heterosexual identity. Not Gay makes sense of those Craigslist m4m ads of "Straight seeking Straight Jack Off Buddy." "Look bro, if you can't help a friend out by giving him a handjob then you're kind of a fag!" - says he-man former frat boy. #NotAllMen was a Twitter movement that angered ma

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida You may have read that podcasts are getting insanely popular. Podcasts aren't only popular but they even gained some sex appeal! What once was a desire to have sex with the groovy radio DJ in the 1960s is now the desire to bang the person behind the USB microphone. I've had sex with several listeners over the past 80 weeks and Keith Malley, one half of the popular Keith and the Girl podcasting duo, is married to a longtime listener! This y-chromosome-fueled Manwhore Podcast discusses porn clickholes, Keith's religious upbringing and growing a loving bond with your listeners. I love you all! Except a few of you, probably. Keith started a podcast with his then-girlfriend Chemda (aka "The Girl"). When they broke up in real life, a publishing contract required them to fake their relationship on air for a whole year. He shares his experience with a secret break-up. We also chat about interacting with our listeners—even when those are less-than-clo