The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-positive Quest For Love

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “Most men aren’t confident enough to approach women on a train,” says comedian Eagle Witt. This week’s Manwhore Podcast guest stresses the difference between street harassment and real world flirtation. My guest believes that women will speak up when they want you to leave them alone. “A woman is not mute,” Witt insists. “She will turn you down—quickly. And when that happens, the most important thing is that’s it. Once you get turned down, disengage.” Two straight men discuss how women experience the world. How could this possibly go wrong?! PLUS: slutty guys, nonmonogamy, advice, #PayForYourPorn, race, rape accusations, and self-slutshaming! ManwhoreCon weekend pass prices go up on April 3rd. Enjoy the super early bird discount today! Follow Eagle Witt (but be nice!): Twitter: @EagleWitt Instagram: @EagleWitt Follow Billy! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook Fan Page Enjoy the perks of fanwhore membership for j

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Nicoletta Heidegger is an MFT associate and sexologist who thinks there’s nothing strange with being a sex-loving smartypants. “I can be a slut and a scholar at the same time. It doesn’t have to be either/or,” she shares. That’s why she started the Sluts & Scholars podcast! Heidegger joins me on this week’s Manwhore Podcast to discuss how to fight fairly with your partner and how to handle being called out on social media. Can you guess who that second one is directed towards? ALSO: I share a recent regrettable sexual experience that reminded me to advocate for myself. PLUS: disabilities, death threats, impromptu orgies, pegging, therapy and Love, Simon! Mentioned on the show: Sexual Health Alliance AASECT Hacienda Follow Nicoletta Heidegger! Website Twitter: @msheidegger Instagram: @msheidegger Sluts & Scholars Become a member of my fanwhore community for just $2! Click here to join the club! The Manwhore Podcast is sponsored by AdamMa

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Men sometimes fall folly to the mantra, “Once a slut, always a slut.” It’s at the heart of most of the slut-shaming that occurs in this world. One slut I know has since hung up her scarlet letter—although she’s not certain she’ll stay retired forever. Anna SuperSlut named herself such while making a tear through New York City’s Tinder scene. “New York City is one of the best cities to be a slut in!” she shares on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. “There’re so many men to choose from.” But something caused the her to tone it down and focus on meaningful, loving relationships. It may not be the reason you think! PLUS: intimacy, Baby Jew, platonic love, Open Love NY, grief, and Billy’s Dick Review! ManwhoreCon Super Early Bird Discount passes are on sale for a limited time only! Mentioned in the episode: Kenneth Play Adam Courtney Sex With Timaree Daniel Saynt House of Yes Become a member of my fanwhore community for just $1! Click here to join t

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Ryan Driller is a machine. So says Ryan Driller. Being a male porn star, you kind of have to be. Shoots can take hours, and you have to be able to get rock hard and ready to go at a moment’s notice. Then you also have to be kind of good at sex. Ryan shares his pre-porn weight loss journey as well as his queer encounters with fans out in public on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. Life is just really tough for the guy with abs, women, and a c*ck that won’t quit! ALSO: My dear friend Emily Lubin helps me answer some advice questions and talks about her love of licking buttholes! PLUS: stamina, facial hair, Jared Fogle, happy endings, Bumble bios, and dumb confidence! Enjoy a super early bird discount on your ManwhoreCon weekend pass until April 3rd! Visit www.ManwhorePod.com/tickets! Follow Ryan Driller: Twitter: @ryandriller Instagram: @ryandriller Follow Emily Lubin: Twitter: @lubination Instagram: @hotmesscomedyhour Listen to The Hot Mess Co

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Dudes aren’t the only people who can exhibit toxic masculinity. Pre-woke comedian Elsa Waithe was a queer, butch f*ckboi once upon a time. But now she is a leader in the New York City activist movement, leading protests against racial oppression and anti-queer Trump antics. Activism even led her to Love in a fascinating Black Lives Matter meet cute. Hear her story and start making a protest sign! Check your privilege at the door—and roll your eyes at me if you must! ALSO: Dillon Birdsall has an exciting update about his documentary V-Card! PLUS: racism, “girl clothes”, Facebook jail, gender, Proud Boys, and #MeToo apologies! Hashtag Pay For Your Porn! This month I supported Trenchcoatx! Mentioned in the show: Them.us The Proud Boys Swipe It Forward Safety Pin Box See Elsa record a half-hour on March 2nd! Get tickets for V-Card: The Film at Cinekink on March 15th! Check out Elsa Waithe online! Twitter: @elsajustelsa Affirmative Laughter

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida We all have our shameful moments. I happen to have many of them. Allison joins me on this week’s Manwhore Podcast to reminisce about my peak f*ckboi phase in 2015. She and I sit down and “go to the tape” reading our final text exchanges that led to me losing out on a second date. ALSO: a kinky newbie is nervous about entering a 24/7 d/s relationship with a man she’s known for 2 weeks. Is this normal kink or is he a controlling psycho? PLUS: Tinder, casual sex, break-up text messages, ManwhoreCon news, and a sad announcement! Super Early Bird discount tickets are available for a limited time only! Get your weekend pass today at http://manwhorepod.com/tickets. Mentioned in the episode: Qualities to Look for in a REAL Dominant by Delanie Moore A Field Guide to Creepy Dom[sic] by Asher Bauer Follow me online! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook fan page Become a member of my fanwhore community for just $1! Click h

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Transgender porn star Venus Lux has run off to join a bunch of queers living in the woods of Tennessee. “Follow the trail of glitter and you’ll find your tribe!” Although Venus Lux is planning on her life after porn, she still plans to use her success to change how trans is treated by the adult entertainment industry and its fans. “Can I make a difference? Can I make a change? Can I motion a revolution?” I think she can! This special Manwhore Podcast comes to you from the AVN Awards in Las Vegas! PLUS: creepy fans, Billy’s boobs, advice emails, AOL chat rooms, family, and jizzing out! Mentioned on the show: Kink.com Sgt. Miles Mandy Mitchell Check out Venus Lux! Website Twitter: @VenusLux Only Fans Become a member of our fanwhore community on Patreon. Click here to join today! Be a dandy! Enjoy 50% off your first month of condoms when you sign up at beadandy.com/podcast! Email your comments, questions, and boobies to [email protected]

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida OMG! This is episode 200! Who would have thought that my penis could carry a show for this long?! I kid: we all know the ladies are the true stars of this show! On this milestone episode of The Manwhore Podcast, I hand the hosting duties over to two gorgeous fanwhores to interview me. They ask who I’m going gay for, why I stopped talking to my family for two years, what is it about gambling that’s so fun, and if I ever had to “come out” as polyamorous—and more! PLUS: AOL chat rooms, body image, T-Dar, asian food, failed threesomes, and coming out queer! Seriously, thank you all so much for tuning in and supporting the show. Whether this is your first time listening or you’ve binged through it all, you are the reason this podcast has such a wonderful community around it. Let me know what this show has meant to you! Follow Lindsay on Twitter: @LindsayCins4U Follow Billy online: Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Become a

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Hamiltoe is the porn parody we didn’t know we needed. The pun is so obvious that it’s astonishing no one had made it yet. So when Eitan Levine pitched a Hamilton porn parody to Wood Rocket, they instantly bought it. The comedian tells me the story of how the historical porn parody got made! PLUS: public sex, AVN Awards, #PayForYourPorn, jerking off in a movie theater, and Sing Street! Please join me in paying for your porn! Buy a membership somewhere and tweet me what you chose! Follow Eitan Levine on the places! Twitter: @eitanthegoalie Instagram: @eitanthegoalie Follow me! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook: Manwhore Podcast fan page Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for as little as $1! Click here to join today! Go to a 24/7 digital strip club in your home on Cam Soda! Get 50 free tokens when you sign up at camsoda.com/podcast! The Manwhore Podcast is sponsored by Pure. Download Pure to g

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida There’s a particular brand of nonmonogamy that’s been around for ages with a pseudo-acceptance from mainstream society. Swingers typically play with other people—together! Elle has had quite the sexual journey since her first appearance on the pod over 3 years ago! She started having threesomes, going to sex parties, and then got an equally hot swinger boyfriend. Along the way, she found herself bored and horny enough to crawl into my bed. Why? Well….I asked her! ALSO: I make a major announcement about my love life! PLUS: Charity Couples, insecurity, bondage, drugs, bartender camp, and The Naked City! Join us next week for the Fanwhore Facebook Live Hangout on The Manwhore Podcast fan page! Email your questions about Billy for episode 200 to [email protected]! Follow Billy’s AVN trip to Las Vegas on social media! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook Fan Page Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon f

Stay up-to-date on future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Becky Berardi is the foot fetish queen of New York City. Feet have been a core part of her dating life ever since high school! Something newer in her life is having a boat load of fans thanks to her popular YouTube Channel The Bad Ass Becky Show. But with success comes the occasional overenthusiastic admirer. Becky and I get off her feet to discuss having boundaries with your fans. She’s arguably way better at setting limits than I am. With sexually charged shows like ours, strangers get a tad too familiar when reaching out. Are you giving polite compliments or being just plain creepy?! PLUS: sexy feet, frivolous labels, sexual harassment, fan friendships, and foot jobs! Follow Becky Berardi! The Bad Ass Becky Show Twitter: @badassbeckyshow Instagram: @badassbeckyshow Facebook Fan Page Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for just $1! Click here to join today! Email your comments, questions, and boobies to [email protected]

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Sometimes a dude with a big d*ck is just a big d*ck. Diana returns to The Manwhore Podcast sharing the worst sex she ever had. “He had a bigger than average penis. And I could tell that he knew it and held a lot of his self-esteem in that extra inch or so.” Diana made the decision/mistake of sleeping with me again since she first came on the show back in 2014. We discuss all of the faux pas I made this second time around and how she’s gotta be in a certain mood to f*ck me. “It’s a little bit theatrical when I have sex with you. It’s always a show. You do a lot in bed.” Oops. ALSO: have you ever had an orgasm at the gym??? PLUS: female led relationships, BDSM, dating, virgins, and masturbating for clarity! We need YOUR questions about Billy for Episode 200! Email them to [email protected]! Follow me! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida /r/manwhorepodcast Become a member of the fanwhore community on Patreon for as little

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “When someone puts a hand on my dry clitoris, I’m like, ‘Who raised you?’” says Emily Varnam on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. F*ckbois beware! This feminist has a social justice test before she lets you anywhere near her period panties. The 5th Vital Sign co-founder shares the joys, delights, and mehs of being a birth doula. She typically coaches people through birth control selection, pregnancy, and raising children. Needless to say, Billy learned a lot about the female body this week! ALSO: Christina Hepburn from the T&A Talk Sex podcast talks about her work as a professional cuddler! PLUS: feminism, obstetrical violence, period sex, body literacy, racism, and babies! Like The Manwhore Podcast on Facebook! Relevant Links: J. Marion Sims (corrected from Marion J. Sims) How Racism May Cause Black Mothers to Suffer the Death of Their Infants Dominique Christina’s “The Period Poem” Nicole Jordan author of Anastasia Follow The Fifth Vital Si

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Jamie Loftus lost her virginity on August 15, 2010. It’s not just a statement of fact—it’s the name of her one-woman show! To celebrate the anniversary of the night she lost her V-card, the Bechdel Cast host reenacts it in front of a paying audience while the lucky fella Skypes in to co-host. Loftus tells us all about that show as well as her movie podcast The Bechdel Cast where she analyzes the portrayal of women in film. ALSO: a listener asks how I ended up identifying as “polyamorous” as opposed to “weird”! PLUS: New York City, dock men, divorced parents, dating comedians, and Jamie’s favorite betas! Jamie Loftus is awesome. Find out why! Website Twitter: @hamburgerphone Instagram: @JamieChristSuperstar The Bechdel Cast ”Make Them Leave” Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for just $1. Click here to pledge today! Get $20 off premium wine delivery with Winc! Use promo code MANWHORE! Email your comments, questions, and

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida I’m not sure if Nick Hawk is a gigolo or a life guru after chatting with the Showtime star. “The ego is part of you. Embrace it,” he says on an all new Manwhore Podcast. “We confuse confidence with arrogance a lot.” I walked into his midtown hotel room convinced we would discuss the ins and outs of selling sex, but we entered a higher plane discussing creativity, confidence, and anxiety. What do those topics have to do with being one of America’s leading male escorts? Apparently everything! The 100 Kicks in the Ass author wants you to get a little cocky as you elevate your life. “F*ck humility. I hate it!” ALSO: a trans man gets a lot of unqualified advice from a cissy boy! PLUS: stripping, comedy, listener feedback, alcoholism, MeToo movement, and Craigslist Chronicles! Follow Nick Hawk! Website Twitter: @TheNickHawk Instagram: @TheNickHawk Nick Hawk’s 100 Kicks in the Ass: A Guide to Gaining Confidence & Reaching Your Full Potential Fol

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “I usually drug myself before I have sex with him,” says this week’s Manwhore Podcast guest. Dove is a sugar baby. She’s a sugar baby who detests her clients. “I like them when they’re losers because they’re easy.” Hear how this young woman went from dating me to making $30,000 this year off of just one guy! If I’m the cause, shouldn’t I get a cut? ALSO: I got yelled at by a strange man at a sex party on Saturday. If he wanted me to run out of the house crying, all he had to do was call me fat! Oh well. PLUS: nudes, New York dating, rejection, threesomes, communication, and rich dudes! Enter to win a free Stay Slutty button by answering this survey! Follow me online! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook Fan Page /r/manwhorepodcast Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for just $1(.38). Click here to pledge today! Support The Manwhore Podcast by signing up for Winc. Email your comments, questions, a

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida “Everyone wants to steal your mind space,” says Daniel Saynt, the Chief Conspirator and Founder of New York City’s hot new sex club NSFW—the New Society For Wellness. “Everyone wants to steal your attention. Especially if you’re doing something that’s pushing something forward.” Saynt is not without his haters, but he pays them no mind. The bisexual sex party mischief-maker hopes to help his members realize sexual enlightenment through kink demos, consent workshops, and cannabis cooking classes. Hear how he went from a bi-closeted married man to running a house of ill repute (and dank weed) on an all-new Manwhore Podcast! PLUS: religious orgies, stigma, comprehensive sex education, bukkake car wash, enthusiastic consent, and polyamory! Follow Daniel Saynt and NSFW! Twitter: @DanielSaynt, @wearensfw Instagram: @danielsaynt, @wearensfw NSFW Facebook page Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for just $1. Click here to pledge tod

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Amber Rollo left the glitter-ridden stripper stage for a different stage with a less sturdy pole and a solid brick wall. Amber and I exchanged dirt to prepare for our roast battle at The Stand Comedy Club in New York City. I learned that she was an awkward bisexual youth with dead parents. She learned that a bunch of idiots with questionable taste used to pay me to take my clothes off on webcam. This week’s Manwhore Podcast ends with the critique of a listener’s sexting novellas—upon his request! PLUS: alcoholism, bisexual, erotica, privileged stripping, and James Joyce farts! Follow Amber Rollo on the internet: Website Twitter: @ambercrollo Instagram: @ambercrollo Follow Billy! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram.: @TheBillyProcida Facebook Fan Page Reddit: /r/manwhorepodcast Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for just $1. Click here to pledge today! Get $50 off your Motorbunny with promo code MANWHORE at www.Motorbunny.

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Online dating consultant Steve Dean is so good at dating that he went on a first date…that lasted 17 hours! “I like to think of my dates as having chapters to them,” Dean says. But what happens if I want to skip the boring chapter with a bunch of flashbacks of her father?! The polyamorous “digital nomad” returns to The Manwhore Podcast to discuss the terrifying topic of dating, from how to open conversations on Tinder to how to pick a first date location. When in doubt? “Gifs,” he says. PLUS: relationship anarchy, friendship first, the Pure Hook-up App, and gifs! Follow Steve Dean: Dateworking.com Twitter: @stevenmdean Writings on Medium Follow me: Twitter Instagram Facebook Reddit Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for just $1. Click here to pledge today! Get $50 off your Motorbunny with promo code MANWHORE at www.Motorbunny.com! Email your comments, questions, and boobies to [email protected]. www.ManwhorePod.com

Stay up-to-date with future Billy at http://linktr.ee/billyprocida Maya attended a sex party to get her mojo back. Instead, she found me. What a bummer! Maya dropped me because I was too young for her—a mere 12-year age gap. On this week’s Manwhore Podcast, I challenge her to find one of a plethora of valid reasons to not date me. As she does so, we talk about escaping an abusive marriage and searching for intimacy in a city of f*ckboys. She’s done chasing meaningless orgasms! This woman wants a connection! Pffft, I got a guy at Best Buy who sells those. PLUS: divorce, polyamory, sex-positive parenting, Craigslist Chronicles, age, and sex parties! Follow me online! Twitter: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @TheBillyProcida Facebook Fan Page /r/manwhorepodcast Become a member of my fanwhore community on Patreon for as little as $1. Click here to pledge today! Get $50 off your Motorbunny with promo code MANWHORE at www.Motorbunny.com! Support The Manwhore Podcast by signing up for premium wine delivery with Win