Shrink For The Shy Guy

Join Dr. Aziz LIVE for a 3-day virtual event: Not Nice LIVE > Go here for details and tickets.In this episode of Shrink for the Shy Guy, Dr. Aziz exposes one of the most insidious traps keeping people stuck in anxiety, guilt, and people-pleasing: The Nice Trap. This subtle form of self-erasure convinces you that being agreeable, self-sacrificing, and undemanding will earn you love, respect, and belonging. But in reality, it does the opposite. You feel anxious, disconnected, and unseen—because you're not showing up as you. Dr. Aziz breaks down how this trap gets wired early in life, the invisible rules that keep you playing small, and the internal “trip wires” that trigger guilt the moment you try to break free. More importantly, you’ll learn how to spot those rules… and begin rewriting them. Packed with insights, mindset shifts, and real-world strategies, this episode invites you to reclaim your boundaries, speak your truth, and finally stop trading authenticity for approval.