Shrink For The Shy Guy

Think you care too much about other people’s feelings? Think again. In this bold kickoff to 2026, Dr. Aziz pulls back the curtain on the real reason “nice people” overextend themselves, struggle to say no, and feel constantly responsible for everyone’s emotions. Spoiler alert: it’s not because they care too much—it’s because they’re trying to stay safe. Deep down, many people-pleasing behaviors are driven by fear, guilt, and the unconscious belief that your worth hinges on making others happy. In this eye-opening episode, you’ll learn: Why over-functioning and “caring” often mask codependency The hidden emotional cost of being overly responsible How niceness traps you in an outdated identity that’s not really you The essential difference between real care and fear-based appeasement Why it’s time to update your inner operating system—not just tweak your habits If you’ve ever said yes when you wanted to say no, answered texts out of anxiety, or felt guilty for simply protecting your time and energy, this epis